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Old 04-11-2004, 02:16 PM
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The question I have been afraid to ask myself and otherz...

Well...

When I decide to finally tell my Mom I am movin out and that I no longer want to be a contibuter to her alcoholic wayz...when do I return home? Do I return for holidayz? What if they all get ticked off and decide to make me the black sheep of the family? Do I ever go back?

I dunno what to think of it. Perhapz for the initial yearz I should stay away. But then as time goes on, maybe I will return for holidayz only....

ugh...who knowz...I should probably just cross that bridge when I get there.

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Old 04-11-2004, 03:38 PM
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Def,
You answered your own question. Take it one step at a time.
I am currently the black sheep of my family and I wear my black sheep jacket proudly. :p
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Old 04-11-2004, 04:15 PM
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I will wear mine too....BAH BAH!!!! lol

*hugz*

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Old 04-11-2004, 05:04 PM
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Black Sheep are way cool.
Just keep your focus on what you need to do for you, and not on what other people will think about it.
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Old 04-12-2004, 11:30 AM
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I can relate to being the black sheep. I am responsible for my family's unhappiness. Because I don't participate in the madness, I am "tearing the family apart". Sure I am! I visit when I want to visit. That is not much anymore. They only seem to get upset with me when I'm around, because I don't act the way they want. I used to be scared that I would be alone and lonely and insecure without my family's approval. I know now that they are there for me and I for them if we truly are in need. But they aren't capable of meeting my need for nurturing, security, or approval. I have to get those met in other people. Mostly people in my alanon meetings. Have you ever seen a whole herd of black sheep? That's us! Hugs, Magic
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Old 04-20-2004, 09:20 PM
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Re: The question I have been afraid to ask myself and otherz...

bah bah black sheep here. These days I just follow my gut on visits & answering the phone even. They ususally only call when they want something. Bah!! Bah!! BAH!! BAH!!
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