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Old 12-22-2014, 10:40 AM
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Unexplained bruises, cuts and black eyes. Lost one shoe or both.
Yup this is typical for people with a booze problem!

Everytime I am walking the street and I see one shoe on the ground, I think to myself, there goes a drunkard. Or I see a person with a black eye, or 2 black eyes. Typical for us drunkards!
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Old 12-22-2014, 10:56 AM
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Good advice
has helped to save many
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What's the EAP line?
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Old 12-22-2014, 10:59 AM
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What's the EAP line?
employee assistance program, where you work they may call it something else but all employers should have it. Feel free to PM me if you have questions.
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Old 12-22-2014, 11:42 AM
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Lostgirl, have you thought of calling your EAP line at work and getting help that way? Maybe with an inpatient or outpatient program? They would protect your privacy and help you find a program. But it sounds like you're getting to the point where you have to make a decision to stop completely, one way or another.
What's eap?
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Old 12-22-2014, 11:46 AM
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Old 12-22-2014, 12:15 PM
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Employee Assistance Program
I don't even know what that is. part of my insurance?
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Old 12-22-2014, 12:18 PM
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Unexplained bruises, cuts and black eyes. Lost one shoe or both.
Yup this is typical for people with a booze problem!

Everytime I am walking the street and I see one shoe on the ground, I think to myself, there goes a drunkard. Or I see a person with a black eye, or 2 black eyes. Typical for us drunkards!
Nobody punched me or anything. It just looks like somebody did. That's what
I was asking. Maybe dehydration?
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Old 12-22-2014, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted by lostgirll View Post
Nobody punched me or anything. It just looks like somebody did. That's what
I was asking. Maybe dehydration?
Keepin it simple... no, drinking causes it. Why complicate it with what alcohol does to your body? Sounds to me like you're just doing a number on yourself. I had to remind myself to KISS to get brutally honest. Honesty and willingness are key.
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Old 12-22-2014, 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted by lostgirll View Post
I don't even know what that is. part of my insurance?
depends on where you work large employers have these programs available
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Old 12-22-2014, 07:51 PM
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I work at an ad agency. I think they do have something like that
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Old 12-22-2014, 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted by lostgirll View Post
Really. That's pretty scary. Thanks for sharing that.

Yeah it is scary and it's a horrible situation to be in but also so avoidable.

I slipped up on the last day of November (have been clean since) and I spent 3 days with zero sleep, heart racing, mind racing, shaking like a shitting dog, just waiting for a seizure to hit.
It's a bit different for me because i've had the seizures before so i'm now more susceptible to them than most, but it's so frustrating when you put yourself in that position knowing full well what the consequences might be.
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Old 12-23-2014, 06:19 AM
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I work at an ad agency. I think they do have something like that
I PMd you, I'm pretty good with that stuff, let me know if you have any questions.
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