flame2k2

This past summer I ended up trying all the illicit drugs I had heard about and thought about trying.. I had my fun, had my hangovers, had my fights, had my comedowns, had my hallucinations, had the cravings, the depression, and met some of the whackiest people of my life. Now that I got it over with, my girlfriend (who is 2 years younger than me and is attending my old school) is starting to become interested in a few of the drugs I had tried and that I now really despise. Her sister is a year older and is in the same stupid phase, and the town im in is completely covered in drug addicts of all sorts. I don't want to be dragged into that again, nor even be around it now that I will be starting school soon. I don't want to leave my girlfriend as its been almost 2 years now and I have a lot of trust and faith in our relationship. What can I do? If I tell her to stay away from her sister, she may lie behind my back or god knows what. I do plan to tell her to not be involved and to tell her of all the consequences and experiences I had, but younger women are so easily persuaded into doing stupid 'fun' things, especially by their older sister. Am I to just sit back and let her learn for herself, break up with her, or keep her on a 3 foot rope? Is there anyone out there that is in the same situation or has experienced this? I'm the kind of guy that values his future, and really do not want to be around this stuff. The thought of drugs just P**ses me off.. any advice..?

waveslayer

wow, not a good situation there, fortinatly for you, you experimented and where able to let go, there is no garuntee it will be the same for her. There are more then a few drugs that if she becomes involved in she may not be able to just put them down, mainly meth, the various forms of cocaine ingestion and the opiates, all 3 will also turn her into a different person if she starts abusing them, which is something she may be able to hide from you for a while.

Its not my place to give you advice, but since you are going off to school and there is no marraige or children involved, I wont say break it off if I were you, but I will say, if you do stay in contact with her, be very very carefull.