is it ok
lesa
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Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: parkersburg wv
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I told him a firm NO...he keep on and I said to him again no...he said I just taking t he car and I told him if he does I was calling the police and report it stolenn.it is in my name,,my car...He said he was leaving told him I can not stop him from going and I know that ,Told him I can not go ..and I can stand up to him...he said he sick of me beening on here,,,he said stop woorying about me and what i do and I told Iam n ot I working on me...he does not like that ..suppose he wants me sick like him...not sure why,????
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Join Date: Mar 2007
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Misery loves company.
I am guessing you make it real easy for him to use and not feel consequenses.
So as an addict. I wouldnt want to lose that either.
Now that you are resisting. There goes his scapegoat. His door mat.
His enabler.
Sorry but it's true. IMO
Now he is going to have to deal with the fact that this is a problem and that it ISN'T OK.
When we addicts have someone like you to dam near hold our hand the whole way through our addiction. It is like a free pass to do what we please.
Because we know someone will always be there to for us to lean on and that will put up with us through anything.
That when you need to break yourself away and start looking out for you.
And take that sign off your forehead that says abuse me because I will be there no matter what.
I havent followed your posts but I read back a little.
Do you use too? I didnt see that anywhere in your past posts.
If you dont use why would you even go with him to begin with?
If you do then he isnt too happy about losing his using buddy.
I wish you the best.
I am guessing you make it real easy for him to use and not feel consequenses.
So as an addict. I wouldnt want to lose that either.
Now that you are resisting. There goes his scapegoat. His door mat.
His enabler.
Sorry but it's true. IMO
Now he is going to have to deal with the fact that this is a problem and that it ISN'T OK.
When we addicts have someone like you to dam near hold our hand the whole way through our addiction. It is like a free pass to do what we please.
Because we know someone will always be there to for us to lean on and that will put up with us through anything.
That when you need to break yourself away and start looking out for you.
And take that sign off your forehead that says abuse me because I will be there no matter what.
I havent followed your posts but I read back a little.
Do you use too? I didnt see that anywhere in your past posts.
If you dont use why would you even go with him to begin with?
If you do then he isnt too happy about losing his using buddy.
I wish you the best.
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