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Old 09-21-2021, 03:25 AM
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So today is my day 0

I知 struggling with depression, anxiety, and stress of therapy. However I知 quite hopeful and interested in how being sober will help me.

Ive been attending AA meetings online now for a few days and find them helpful.
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Old 09-21-2021, 03:38 AM
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Old 09-21-2021, 03:41 AM
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Thankyou aasharon

Thankyou aasharon I will stay close to sr and the great support its community provides.
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Support, care and understanding SR strong, LeadHatter.
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Old 09-21-2021, 04:37 AM
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Hmmm

Maybe actually this is day one not day 0. Basically it痴 the first day of not drinking.
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Old 09-21-2021, 04:50 AM
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Oh, excellent. Day One off alcohol, glad to hear you are doing it.
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Old 09-21-2021, 05:19 AM
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Thankyou bimini

Thankyou bimini
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Old 09-21-2021, 05:44 AM
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Good to get back on track LeadHatter and sticking close to SR is a good idea too

Yes today will be both Day 0 and Day 1 for you! It's your first day, soon enough it will be 24 hours and on to day 2.

If you are struggling with the stress of therapy, is there any alternative you could do? Is this group therapy or am I thinking of someone else (someone posted last week that they found group therapy was triggering an urge to drink)?.
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Old 09-21-2021, 05:55 AM
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How being sober will help you:

A more stable sense of self
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The benefits far outweigh the hours spent consuming alcohol. Hope is a wonderful thing. Stay close. Post often and know that you can change your life.
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Old 09-21-2021, 06:03 AM
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Yeah I would call this day 1, LH.
Being sober has helped me in every way possible.

Congrats!

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Old 09-21-2021, 06:04 AM
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I think there's something quite exciting about making the leap into the "unknown"
Drink, you've been there, done that, it's not worth it.
What else is out there that is worth the effort you put in? Now you have the chance to find out.
I'd be surprised if stopping drinking didn't help with your anxiety and depression as drink induces both. You have a chance to find out that too.
Good Luck 🌱
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Thankyou for your support

Thankyou for your support everyone. Robbie it痴 one on one therapy. I will just need to trust the process and trust god.
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You sound really committed to get and stay sober. Your posting on SR frequently shows that, along with your getting therapy. I truly believe you will be one of the success stories here on SR. You are doing a great job dealing with your depression and anxiety. Your determination is inspiring!!!!!!!! Keep fighting the good fight. The payoff will be worth it. John
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Hi LH - Congratulations on day 1. Therapy is an odd thing, talking to another person you don't know well, therapists don't have all the answers but they can listen and they can help you reflect on what you have said, pause when you may have said something that needs more exploration. It does take time to get used to it.
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Old 09-21-2021, 08:09 AM
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This is Day 1 for you and good job on making this decision.
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Old 09-23-2021, 01:54 AM
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This is great news LH 😀 congratulations on your day 1, stick close, we are always here to support you.
love Billy x
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Just saw this! Awesome!
Looks like Day 3 now

"Trust the process"

This^^

I fought the "process" forever. Not until I came to SR and gave in to it did I stand a chance.

You can do it!

BTW, me personally, my anxiety is way better since quitting.
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Thanks

Thankyou for all your help everyone. Yes I知 day 3. only minor thoughts of booze so far.
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Good work on 3 days . It does get easier.
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