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Old 01-31-2021, 03:26 PM
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First full day

Today, having tapered down, was my first day without alcohol, even with outside meddling, I held it together.
This site has certainly help me today, just dipping in and out, kept busy.
Thank you for this forum, and the kind encouragement,
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Old 01-31-2021, 03:31 PM
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Good going JamesW. You can do this. What outside meddling are you having to contend with? I'm proud of you and I am here to tell you, if I can do this, ANYONE can do this. We are here for you.
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congrats on day one James - it will get easier

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Old 01-31-2021, 03:47 PM
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Oh yeah Surrender,

Just got out, finally, of a domestic violent relation, fellow alcoholic. The last beating was the last, Need to have a second Court hearing, Police obtained a 28 day order. This one will give me a Year. In UK we call it a non-molestation order. Hearing is Friday, by phone 'cause of Covid.

My ex, had his friends making life very difficult, had left him a year earlier, then would appear to give comfort etc, Classic I know now. Two nasty things, one in my letter box, rubbish scattered outside my window.
My first reaction was "I need a drink", but made homemade soup instead lol
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Old 01-31-2021, 03:56 PM
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Welcome to SR JamesW and congratulations on your first full day without alcohol, especially given the circumstances you have described.
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Day 3 here Congrats in choosing sobriety.
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Old 01-31-2021, 04:08 PM
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James, good for you for making the decision to stop drinking. I'm sorry about the issues you're dealing with regarding your ex, but you know, being sober, you'll be able to deal with things in the best way possible.
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Old 01-31-2021, 04:44 PM
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Dang, JamesW, that definitely qualifies as outside meddling. Jeezus. I'm so sorry you are having to cope with all of that nonsense. Yet another great reason to stay sober and sharp and ready to address what comes.
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Old 01-31-2021, 04:52 PM
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I'm so glad you got out James. So great that you didn't let the creeps get you down to a point where you might drink. Way to go. We will never concede!

Long live soup!
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James, that is awesome to hear
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Old 01-31-2021, 06:00 PM
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James - Great job on Day 1. I fooled myself into thinking alcohol was making things calmer & easier. It was doing just the opposite. We need a clear head to deal with life. You're smart to stay busy - that is key. I'm happy you're getting free of it.
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Old 01-31-2021, 06:46 PM
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that is a tough set of circumstances that you manage to separate yourself from. Congratulations on that! It is great that you have found yourself here and committing yourself to sobriety. Wishing you all the best on this journey <3
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Glad to hear you sought comfort in soup (so much better than the sauce), James. But sorry you have experienced what sounds like a distressing relationship. I hope you feel safe with the order?
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Congrats on day one! Sorry about your domestic situation. Like people have said, booze cannot help and a clear head will prevail.
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