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Old 10-18-2020, 01:00 AM
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5 weeks

Another week gone bye. I have been mostly well.
I had a bbq lunch today with a long time drinking buddy and got through it sober.
Anxiety through the roof this arvo because of family drama. Really uncomfortable, lost appetite, too much adrenaline
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Old 10-18-2020, 01:47 AM
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Noticed some cooking wine whilst preparing dinner. Straight down the drain hole it went. Trying to keep the nerves at Bay. Sometimes it's harder than it should be to NOT worry about things that are out of my control.
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Congrats on five weeks!
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Old 10-18-2020, 03:04 AM
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Old 10-18-2020, 03:28 AM
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Congratulations on 5 weeks! Whatever you are feeling it will eventually pass so stay the course. As you already know, drinking doesn’t solve anything. As time moves on the urge will fade as other activities takes it place. Every month I seem to move to a new level where I gain more clarity.

like I’ve heard on here before, I never once woke up regretting not drinking the night before.
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Patience is what I have learned. When I start getting antsy, I concentrate on relaxing and knowing that what is bothering me really doesn't matter. I just keep realizing that my sobriety is the most important thing in my life. Best wishes for you on your journey!
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Old 10-18-2020, 03:55 AM
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Congratulations on 5 weeks Finalcall. Well done on getting through the lunch without drinking. Hopefully the family problem gets resolved and your anxiety and stress levels drop.
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Old 10-18-2020, 04:33 AM
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Hi FC - good work on 5 weeks! My anxiety was really bad and became noticeably better at 10 weeks... I hope the same is true for you

When i feel anxious I walk. There is something about the movement that helps me. Sometimes those walks are long!! The only time I didn't walk to ease my emotions was if I had bad cravings, just in case I walked into a pub.
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Old 10-18-2020, 06:58 AM
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Old 10-18-2020, 07:20 AM
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FC, great job on 5 weeks of sobriety.

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Old 10-18-2020, 08:23 AM
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Very good sign if you survived the BBQ and the drama later. That sounded like the first big test. No reason why you can’t stop forever now.
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Old 10-18-2020, 08:59 AM
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Old 10-18-2020, 10:03 AM
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FC - that's some real sober time. Give yourself some credit, see the distance you have come from the drink. Keep it moving and stay strong and check in with us. Congrats.
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Old 10-21-2020, 07:31 AM
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Congrats on 5 weeks!! I'm a couple of weeks ahead of you, and should warn you that you might start to get cocky and think you've got it under control and can have a drink or 2 no problem. At least that's what happened to me. Stay strong. I think that all these covid restrictinos have made for a great time to stop drinking because we can't go anywhere and you have an easy excuse for not going out with friends and drinking.
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Old 10-21-2020, 08:43 AM
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Brilliant job on five weeks - Congratulations!
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Congrats on five weeks. That's great.
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