A thousand days
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Thanks Anna! And thank you for all your advice and support, particularly in relation to my relationship with my mother. This was something I needed to resolve in my own mind in order to heal and by sharing your experience, you helped me so much. The relationship with my mother still may not be what I think it should be.... still may not be what I wish it could be but it is what it is. And I accept it for what it is now. And with that acceptance came healing and peace of mind. You taught me that. So thank you Anna xxxx
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Brilliant, SoberRican! 86 days is awesome and it will just get better and better. Can't remember exactly when it happens but at some point sobriety gets into it's groove and builds up it's own momentum. I'm not saying we become complacent, we can never become complacant but at some point I realised I was staying sober not because drinking is dumb but because sobriety is awesome. And when that switch flicked in my brain, everything got easier. I can't wait to read your 1000 day post SoberRican! It will be here before you know it.... With lots of other incredible days inbetween xxxx
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Thank you Hevyn. So happy to know you and know that you are on this journey with me, leading the way. We're united in our journey of healing ...... and our love of yellow Labradors! Love you Hevyn xxxx
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Thank you Dee 😊.
No exaggeration to say I wouldn't be where I am today if it wasn't for you. When I joined SR, I was angry and reactive and so super sensitive. I took stuff the wrong way and couldn't see that it wasn't any situation, any person, any event disturbing my peace..... It was me and my addiction disturbing my peace. I think I left SR a few times in the early days in a blaze of self pity and indignation but each time I came back, you were there .... Welcoming, patient, non-judgmental but also honest. You're honest and compassionate Dee, and that's not always an easy combo to get right.
Going off on a bit of a tangent now but bear with me..... When I was growing up, I always watched the Australian soap 'Home and Away'. There was a character in it called Alf Stewart. Alf Stewart was always quite firm with the teenagers and kids .... He didn't put up with any nonsense but he was also always so fair. And he cared about them, he really cared. When I was growing up, I used to watch Home and Away and wonder what it would be like to have an adult like Alf Stewart in my life. Now I know! You helped me find my path towards healing Dee, and you kept steering me back to the path when I wandered off. I owe you my life. Thank you xxxx
No exaggeration to say I wouldn't be where I am today if it wasn't for you. When I joined SR, I was angry and reactive and so super sensitive. I took stuff the wrong way and couldn't see that it wasn't any situation, any person, any event disturbing my peace..... It was me and my addiction disturbing my peace. I think I left SR a few times in the early days in a blaze of self pity and indignation but each time I came back, you were there .... Welcoming, patient, non-judgmental but also honest. You're honest and compassionate Dee, and that's not always an easy combo to get right.
Going off on a bit of a tangent now but bear with me..... When I was growing up, I always watched the Australian soap 'Home and Away'. There was a character in it called Alf Stewart. Alf Stewart was always quite firm with the teenagers and kids .... He didn't put up with any nonsense but he was also always so fair. And he cared about them, he really cared. When I was growing up, I used to watch Home and Away and wonder what it would be like to have an adult like Alf Stewart in my life. Now I know! You helped me find my path towards healing Dee, and you kept steering me back to the path when I wandered off. I owe you my life. Thank you xxxx
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First off, I want to thank you for making me late to work this morning. After reading this post, I decided to go back and read all of the threads that you started from the beginning. And I couldn't stop. You have such a beautiful gift. It was exactly what I needed this morning, and I can't thank you enough. I didn't expect to experience tears of joy when I logged onto my computer this morning with my morning coffee, but that's exactly what happened. So happy for you, and so grateful for the inspiration that you have provided.
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First off, I want to thank you for making me late to work this morning. After reading this post, I decided to go back and read all of the threads that you started from the beginning. And I couldn't stop. You have such a beautiful gift. It was exactly what I needed this morning, and I can't thank you enough. I didn't expect to experience tears of joy when I logged onto my computer this morning with my morning coffee, but that's exactly what happened. So happy for you, and so grateful for the inspiration that you have provided.
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