Really lonely....
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I need to be alone now. I am not good for myself or for other people with other people. I don’t really have answers for you but I try to emerge myself in work, gym, reading and writing. This I will do untill I feel that I have something positive to contribute to company. The world still revolves around the sun, with or without us. It is good that way.
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Originally Posted by Callas 
I need to be alone now. I am not good for myself or for other people with other people. I don’t really have answers for you but I try to emerge myself in work, gym, reading and writing. This I will do untill I feel that I have something positive to contribute to company. The world still revolves around the sun, with or without us. It is good that way.
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Magnum,
Hey there. I'm sorry you are going through this. I am also on Day 5, so go us!
I am pretty young (35) and got divorced this year. Being alone is definitely the hardest thing when you are trying to do the right thing. You need that comfort and support and I didn't have that at all. It can be scary!
I joined AA and have met some great people that I already know are going to be friends. I have also gone out to eat, with a good book, by myself. That's the best, taking yourself out on a date. It can be empowering and relaxing. I highly suggest it!
Maybe you can find some sober meetups in your area, of interest? Or join a gym and find people to connect with.
Feel free to drop a message, I feel us rookies could use each other along with the awesome people on here!
Oh and I so convinced that John Wick is Neo outside of the Matrix. Yup.
Hey there. I'm sorry you are going through this. I am also on Day 5, so go us!
I am pretty young (35) and got divorced this year. Being alone is definitely the hardest thing when you are trying to do the right thing. You need that comfort and support and I didn't have that at all. It can be scary!
I joined AA and have met some great people that I already know are going to be friends. I have also gone out to eat, with a good book, by myself. That's the best, taking yourself out on a date. It can be empowering and relaxing. I highly suggest it!
Maybe you can find some sober meetups in your area, of interest? Or join a gym and find people to connect with.
Feel free to drop a message, I feel us rookies could use each other along with the awesome people on here!
Oh and I so convinced that John Wick is Neo outside of the Matrix. Yup.
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Originally Posted by NicLin
Magnum,
Hey there. I'm sorry you are going through this. I am also on Day 5, so go us!
I am pretty young (35) and got divorced this year. Being alone is definitely the hardest thing when you are trying to do the right thing. You need that comfort and support and I didn't have that at all. It can be scary!
I joined AA and have met some great people that I already know are going to be friends. I have also gone out to eat, with a good book, by myself. That's the best, taking yourself out on a date. It can be empowering and relaxing. I highly suggest it!
Maybe you can find some sober meetups in your area, of interest? Or join a gym and find people to connect with.
Feel free to drop a message, I feel us rookies could use each other along with the awesome people on here!
Oh and I so convinced that John Wick is Neo outside of the Matrix. Yup.
Hey there. I'm sorry you are going through this. I am also on Day 5, so go us!
I am pretty young (35) and got divorced this year. Being alone is definitely the hardest thing when you are trying to do the right thing. You need that comfort and support and I didn't have that at all. It can be scary!
I joined AA and have met some great people that I already know are going to be friends. I have also gone out to eat, with a good book, by myself. That's the best, taking yourself out on a date. It can be empowering and relaxing. I highly suggest it!
Maybe you can find some sober meetups in your area, of interest? Or join a gym and find people to connect with.
Feel free to drop a message, I feel us rookies could use each other along with the awesome people on here!
Oh and I so convinced that John Wick is Neo outside of the Matrix. Yup.
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