Callas

I went to a quiz evening at the golf club on Friday night. I knew exactly what the evening would be like. I have been to many. It would be raucus and boisterous with people getting progressively drunk and silly.

I was not looking forward to it. I thought I would be bored and irritated and just wishing the evening to be over. To my utmost surprise I enjoyed it. I found the drunk conversations rather amusing. I was relaxed and never felt like I wanted a drink. I stayed till the end and had actually a jolly good old time.

I am more and more realising that sobriety is a lifestyle choice like staying in shape, exersizing and eating well. It does not have to be this BIG thing in my mind. It is simply what I do now and for the rest of my life.

I am almost feeling a tiny little bit content.

brighterday1234

AAPJ

I remember my first similar event. It was a fundraising event. Perhaps half the folks were drinking. I know because I watched very carefully. But as the evening went on I realized that most folks did not even notice that I was drinking non-alcoholic beverages. My personal behavior was not that important to them. I was not that important to them. Works for me.

Paulsandy

The same thing happened to me 2 times recently and I had no craving just enjoyed a lot !!!
WE can do it .Its a learned habit so it can be unlearned and relearned.But I stick with unlearned and close the door for re-learn.
Enjoy the peace of mind !!!

Anna

It really does feel good when you see the positive spin on living a sober life.