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Old 06-25-2018, 05:15 AM
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As a brief history, I started drinking when I was 16 and I am now 61 years old. However there were times during that period when I never or hardly drank at all. But within the last 12 years I have become a weekend drunk and I really want to get out of this cycle. And that is why I need this forum which is 24/7 I believe?
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Old 06-25-2018, 05:22 AM
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Hi downnotout

Sounds like as good a time as any to start.
Welcome to the A free team.

The first bit is the trickiest😉
Good luck.
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Old 06-25-2018, 05:23 AM
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Hello and good morning,

We are here for you, and ready to listen and offer support! Welcome to SR. If you want to stop drinking, you have come to the right place!
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Old 06-25-2018, 06:23 AM
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Hello and welcome.
Yes, these forums can be a great place for support.
I started drinking when I was fourteen, and drank alcoholically from the start.
Unlike you, I drank at every possible chance. I did that for over thirty years.

It's great that you realize you may have a problem now.
I eventually morphed into an every day drinker and did that four ten years.

Feel free to post away. And it's great to have you here.
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Welcome to the family. Yes, SR is always open and available. I hope our support can help you get sober for good.
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Welcome, I'm glad you've decided to stop drinking.

We're always here for you.
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Old 06-25-2018, 11:44 AM
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Hello Downnotout

Welcome
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Old 06-25-2018, 11:49 AM
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Hey welcome! I was a 'one day in a weekend' drinker too (and one day during the week). Feel free to join the week end threads where I have received tremendous support, since Friday is like for me a hard day to avoid AV.
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Old 06-25-2018, 12:37 PM
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Hi and welcome, tons of support here. Don't blame you for wanting quit. Sometimes I think we've just "had enough".
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Welcome to a great place, downnotout. I'd been drinking for decades too when I found SR. I found the courage to change my life. You can do it.
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How are you doing today? I hope you're finding it a great day not to pick up!
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Old 06-25-2018, 04:27 PM
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Hey welcome! I was a 'one day in a weekend' drinker too (and one day during the week). Feel free to join the week end threads where I have received tremendous support, since Friday is like for me a hard day to avoid AV.
Thanks for the welcome and I just found my thread from this morning...im learning to navigate this site. Lol. But thank you for the insight into weekend posts etc. Yeah, Friday is my Achilles heel but this will be a big help
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Old 06-25-2018, 04:29 PM
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Welcome, I'm glad you've decided to stop drinking.

We're always here for you.
Thank you for your reply and warm welcome. I definitely need ppl who understand me and whom I can text with. Feel better already
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Old 06-25-2018, 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Ghostlight1 View Post
Hello and welcome.
Yes, these forums can be a great place for support.
I started drinking when I was fourteen, and drank alcoholically from the start.
Unlike you, I drank at every possible chance. I did that for over thirty years.

It's great that you realize you may have a problem now.
I eventually morphed into an every day drinker and did that four ten years.

Feel free to post away. And it's great to have you here.
Thank you for your reply and in some strange way..it's kind of good to know that I'm not the only one who started early. Just out of curiosity...how long have you been sober?
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Old 06-25-2018, 06:38 PM
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Stick around and welcome, downnotout. There is a lot of support of the threads here.
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Old 06-26-2018, 02:28 AM
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Stick around and welcome, downnotout. There is a lot of support of the threads here.
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Thank you...i feel like I belong to a family
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Morning Downotout - you're not wrong there Welcome to the family and hope to see you around, please let us know how you're getting on. x
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Old 06-26-2018, 05:58 PM
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I just need to let out some frustration, which as we all know, if left unchecked can cause problems. So here goes. I have my son and granddaughter who is nine years old and they have been here since before Xmas. I took them in as any good parent would do as they had nowhere to go all of a sudden. (Long story). Anyhow my son wanted to get a cat for his daughter which I reluctantly agreed to. Of course this female cat got pregnant and now there are four kittens around. My house is small so as you can imagine...im getting antsy because I'm used to being alone. Love my family but it's time for them to find their own place but I don't want to seem like I'm kicking them out. However, I am ready to burst. What can I do and how can I handle this in a nice way?
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