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Old 04-24-2018, 01:55 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi All. Once again a find myself trying to get into recovery. Seems like a constant battle. Time that I faced up to the facts of what my drinking is costing me. This time it is my marriage. My wife wants me out and says that I can only see my boys when she can guarantee I am sober. Well, if that is not an incentive, I do not know what is. But I am still afraid that it is not incentive enough. I need this to work.
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Old 04-24-2018, 02:05 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Hey man - I'm in a similar boat. I've broken promises so many times about drinking that it's possible I might never get the trust back. Wishing you all the best.
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Welcome to the forum. Alcoholism for sure destroys everything in its path, including marriages and families.
I think this is for sure one hell of a call to get yourself into rehab asap and a rock solid recovery path in place, but it sounds like there is some hesitation in your post that you would rather keep going down your destructive path, which I really hope isn't the case.
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I'm glad you found us and that you are ready to work on your recovery!
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Old 04-24-2018, 05:55 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Hi and welcome tryingtogether

You'll find a lot of support and good ideas here.

Apart from joining here have you thought yet on what else you might do to stay sober?

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