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Old 03-02-2017, 11:22 PM
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Hi I am new and would like some support.

Hi,

I've been an alcoholic on and off for approximately 10 years. More on than off. Recently I've had 11 days and 7 days sober.

I'm going through a divorce so I went crazy last year and drank every day for like, 6 months. Went to rehab which didn't really work.

I have a therapist now who is helping IMMENSELY. She made me realize that I have no support system (no friends or family) and too much free time.

I was in AA on and off as well. I went to a meeting yesterday instead of drinking! I also have 3 meetings I like to go to so I hope I can get to those, and find some new ones as well. I do have someone who is a sponsor technically but I hadn't talked to her since I went on the crazy many month binge, but I talked to her today and she was happy I contacted her.

Since I don't have a support system in real life, I hope I can get some support with you guys.


tl;dr Alcoholic for 10 years, would like more friends and support
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Old 03-02-2017, 11:30 PM
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Welcome to SR! There is a ton of support here.

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Old 03-02-2017, 11:34 PM
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Old 03-02-2017, 11:37 PM
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Welcome. Good move. Thank you for coming here.
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Old 03-03-2017, 12:05 AM
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Welcome aboard. You'll find a lot of support here, so stick around.
I drank alcoholically for twenty years, the last ten were bad and a waking nightmare.
Sounds like you're ready to quit and you're taking steps in the right direction.
I went on some long benders, too. Never stopped trying to quit, though.
It's now been six years since alcohol crossed my lips, and I was a bad drunk.
There is always hope.
Best to you, and remember, you never have to drink again.
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Welcome to SR thisisausername, congratulations on reaching out!

On the Newcomers page there is also a Class of March 2017 for people who quit this month which might well be worth joining.

Good luck!
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Hi and Welcome thisisausername
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Old 03-03-2017, 01:48 AM
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Welcome thisis, glad you reached out - keep up the momentum and setting yourself up for success
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Old 03-03-2017, 02:14 AM
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Old 03-03-2017, 03:57 AM
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Welcome to SR Thisisausername! I hope you stick with us, you can get a lot of good support for recovery here. Let us know how it's going for you today.
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Old 03-03-2017, 04:07 AM
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Welcome to SR. If you are really committed to getting and staying sober, then you've got some incredible experiences ahead of you.
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Old 03-03-2017, 04:11 AM
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Welcome! So glad you found us! Lots of support here! You came to a great place with lots of caring people! Make sure you join the March 2017 class, too! ♡CR
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Welcome to SR. We are all here for you. I hope SR helps you as much as it has helped me.
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Welcome to the family. I hope our support can help you get sober for good.
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Glad you found us. This is a great place for support.

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Old 03-03-2017, 02:57 PM
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welcome! nothing wrong with adding more support.
but im confused:

"Since I don't have a support system in real life.."

then whats this:

. I went to a meeting yesterday instead of drinking! I also have 3 meetings I like to go to so I hope I can get to those, and find some new ones as well. I do have someone who is a sponsor technically but I hadn't talked to her since I went on the crazy many month binge, but I talked to her today and she was happy I contacted her.


isn't that a real life support system?
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Old 03-03-2017, 10:39 PM
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Thank you all for your support/replies. It helps a lot.
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