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Old 02-21-2017, 04:17 PM
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:30 PM
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:36 PM
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Hi, Dearest Suze, I'm late to this thread.
I can't imagine having to do everything yourself when you aren't well. You have a dear man who clearly loves you. It will get done and it will so worth it.
I only had to move across the country to be with Larry and that was stressful enough. You have such big changes ahead but you are strong and loving and you will come through.
Big hugs. Thinking of you.
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:40 PM
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Lots and lots of hugs for you Suze. We love you!
Love you too least.
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:41 PM
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Thank you dearest Leshar. :hug; ♥
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:50 PM
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This thread really made my day! Best wishes to you both! We are/will be neighbors - I live in a suburb of Columbus.
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:53 PM
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Oh wow Julia....we are in German Village.

Not sure if you are AA or not, I have already picked a weekly meeting there.
One way or the other, it would be lovely to meet you.
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:55 PM
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Love you very much Bug.
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Old 02-21-2017, 04:58 PM
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I saw German Village on goat's initial post on this thread and it took me aback for a moment! It is a beautiful place! I drive through downtown to work.

I have not been going to AA - I have went to a few in the past, but not currently. But, maybe I could go with you! I would LOVE to meet!
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Old 02-21-2017, 05:44 PM
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Suze,

Do you feel the love? the support? You are surrounded by it!

Sometimes it helps when someone else can relate to your situation. As you well know, I am no stranger to anxiety and stress. Despite meds, I still can shut down. Today, I just took a huge leap of faith with my career. I have been a regular ed teacher at the same school for 15 years. Just a few minutes ago, I informed my principal that I am pursuing a different path. I am applying to be an advanced academics resource teacher for the gifted and talented. I have no idea how this will turn out. I am terrified. I finally just said a prayer and put my faith in God. I said to myself that He will let whatever is meant to be happen.

It is time for a change. Change is so difficult for me. However, with support and faith, it will all work out.

Relax, Suze. You will get through this because it is what is meant to be.

Thank you for all of your support over the past few months!
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Sweet Suze! You've been such a huge part of my recovery. At the risk of sounding selfish, I'm glad you will be so much closer!
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Old 02-21-2017, 06:50 PM
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Suze,

Do you feel the love? the support? You are surrounded by it!

Sometimes it helps when someone else can relate to your situation. As you well know, I am no stranger to anxiety and stress. Despite meds, I still can shut down. Today, I just took a huge leap of faith with my career. I have been a regular ed teacher at the same school for 15 years. Just a few minutes ago, I informed my principal that I am pursuing a different path. I am applying to be an advanced academics resource teacher for the gifted and talented. I have no idea how this will turn out. I am terrified. I finally just said a prayer and put my faith in God. I said to myself that He will let whatever is meant to be happen.

It is time for a change. Change is so difficult for me. However, with support and faith, it will all work out.

Relax, Suze. You will get through this because it is what is meant to be.

Thank you for all of your support over the past few months!
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Oh blue.....I am SO proud of you!!!
And we are all going to be with you through the scary parts; I have a very strong feeling this is all going to be OK.

And love, you just lifted me out of a really bad place.
Today has been a nightmare, but now, well, this quote says it far better than I could. ~



We are both going to see our dreams come true. ♥
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Old 02-21-2017, 06:52 PM
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Sweet Suze! You've been such a huge part of my recovery. At the risk of sounding selfish, I'm glad you will be so much closer!
You might think you are being selfish, but not a chance.
That makes me just SO happy.
Love you girl.
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Old 02-21-2017, 06:53 PM
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Suze, You're another day closer to your new life
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Old 02-21-2017, 06:56 PM
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Unfortunately today has been a big step backwards in getting things done....just going to have to let that go. Deep breath.

Thank you love.
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Nick , you are a wonderful guy. Just by posting this, I can read how much you love our Suze.

She's a remarkable woman who puts everyone else before herself.

I love her dearly and we have a VERY strong bond.

Suze has helped me through some really hard times in my life and I'm always here to reciprocate.

The move is soooooo very exciting and it warms my heart knowing she is going to be with the man she adores.

She never says a bad word about anyone and I love her from the bottom of my heart .

I'm so happy she has made this huge life decision to be with you.

Just make sure you look after her or I will fiiiind youuuuuu....lol


You're a gem sweetheart , thanks from all of us xxxx

Wendy xxxx
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The song "Let It Go" is a real pick-me-up listen.

Sorry you're not well....more rest....more sleep....more healing.

Once my husband got a job a 1,000 miles away from where we were living and he left to go work. I had to the sell the house by myself and pack it up over the course of six weeks.

Well, organization isn't really my strong suit. Packing up the house stressed me out and I felt really lost there by myself trying to figure out how to do something I've never done before.

At the end of the day....right under the wire....it got done. My husband showed up to pack up the truck and well, 85% was done. The rest....we figured out. I think at some point we just put a bunch of stuff out on the curb with a "free" sign.

It'll get done Suze. One way or the other. Baby steps.
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Old 02-21-2017, 09:51 PM
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Snoozy and Lillian ~ thank you just so much. s ♥

I have had about 10 meltdowns today....long-story short, I now have no internet connection here. And I will spare you the details....except to say my provider is a huge pita....determined to blame me, or my equipment. Some brilliant tech disconnected me this morning....he was here, in the building connecting someone else. It happened at exactly that moment. I have spent hours on the phone trying to sort this out, and virtually had to threaten them to get a whole bunch of additional data so that I can use my phone as a hotspot.

Not so nice now, am I Snoozy love?

It is also making Skype challenging to use for Nick and I....so fun. Not so much.

OK, rant over.
Not feeling very zen right now.
I need Mr Costanza.....

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Old 02-21-2017, 09:55 PM
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I have had about 10 meltdowns today....
Nah, it could not have been more than 8

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