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Old 05-25-2016, 03:04 PM
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Congrats Jillian!!

I am sure it is scary but you will be fine!!
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Old 05-25-2016, 03:14 PM
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I'm glad you are completely committed to not drinking during your pregnancy. I guess the only person who needs to be completely convinced is you. Maybe once the shock is over, and you immerse yourself in the pregnancy, your obsession will let up. Hang in there.
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Old 05-25-2016, 03:22 PM
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all the best, Jillian
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Old 05-25-2016, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Jillian2563 View Post
I know my therapist knows a whole lot more than I do, but I was a little upset at something she said today. I told her I won't drink because I will not harm my baby. But she seemed like she had no confidence in me, that that's not how alcoholics think. Not her exact words, but you get the gist.

I have all sorts of emotions right now, and I know that's to be expected with early sobriety and being pregnant and all. I'm just here to remind myself one day at a time and to be positive.
She's right that we must want sobriety for ourselves, but a little support, even from the unborn, is always welcome. Congrats on your news and your sobriety.
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Old 05-25-2016, 06:02 PM
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I am scared though of the binge drinking I did prior to finding out. I'm just trying not to worry and hope that everything will ok. I've done "research" on the Internet and can't really seem to find any bad news from other mothers that have asked about my fear above.
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Old 05-25-2016, 06:09 PM
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Best to have a heart-to-heart with your obstetrician, Jillian.

Take good care.
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Old 05-25-2016, 06:37 PM
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Best to have a heart-to-heart with your obstetrician, Jillian. Take good care.
I will, they typically won't schedule until at least 8 wks. Im applying for my insurance tomorrow and see how quickly I can get in.
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Old 05-25-2016, 07:02 PM
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How far along are you?
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Old 05-25-2016, 07:07 PM
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Very early. 5 wks. Well according to my calendar.
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Old 05-25-2016, 07:16 PM
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Will you be honest with your obstetrician , about your binge drinking? I think you'll feel better supported, if your doctor knows, in addition to your therapist.

I'm a retired pre-school director. We had a little boy once, whose family adopted him from Russia. He suffered from Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, which is common in Russia. Life was very hard for him and his family
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Old 05-25-2016, 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Pondlady View Post
Will you be honest with your obstetrician , about your binge drinking? I think you'll feel better supported, if your doctor knows, in addition to your therapist. I'm a retired pre-school director. We had a little boy once, whose family adopted him from Russia. He suffered from Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, which is common in Russia. Life was very hard for him and his family
Absolutely. I will be 100% honest. I have also abstained from further drinking and will not drink at all. I'm also still planning on going to AA and my therapist. I'm just hoping that since it's still very early, that I haven't done any damage. I haven't drank everyday since I got pregnant, but some of the days I did, was a lot. 😞
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Old 05-25-2016, 07:35 PM
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Try not to worry about what you did before you knew you were pregnant. Concentrate on taking the very best care of yourself from here on out, your little one is depending on you.
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