Why my 5 day binge was the best ever - even though...
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Why my 5 day binge was the best ever - even though...
Even though I:-
Spent all my money.
Lost my wallet, phone and coat.
Did a load of sh*t I regret and feel terrible about.
Didn't see my girlfriend.
Have had horrible withdrawal for the past four days (and counting) including; smelly sweats, upset stomach, squits, shakes, anxiety, depression, dread....and now 'just' feel like I have the flu...
It has made me realise that I AM AN ALCOHOLIC and I need to STOP DRINKING FOREVER.....
In itself this makes me really happy. You need to understand a problem before you can beging to tackle it.
First AA meeting on Friday.....I feel unbelievably excited about the future and what I'll be able to achieve when I'm functioning at more than 20%...
Thanks to everyone who's been in touch so far.
Spent all my money.
Lost my wallet, phone and coat.
Did a load of sh*t I regret and feel terrible about.
Didn't see my girlfriend.
Have had horrible withdrawal for the past four days (and counting) including; smelly sweats, upset stomach, squits, shakes, anxiety, depression, dread....and now 'just' feel like I have the flu...
It has made me realise that I AM AN ALCOHOLIC and I need to STOP DRINKING FOREVER.....
In itself this makes me really happy. You need to understand a problem before you can beging to tackle it.
First AA meeting on Friday.....I feel unbelievably excited about the future and what I'll be able to achieve when I'm functioning at more than 20%...
Thanks to everyone who's been in touch so far.
Your 5 day binge sounds remarkably familiar to me. Losing my wallet/spending all my money is usually the only way my binges ended. the worst for me though was the 3 days of recovery locked away in my apartment, an anxiety ridden mess. Stick close to this forum as it was always a lifeline for me in those dark times.
So many times I have spent loads of money while blackout drunk, it makes me feel angry about myself, but when I think about the future, how much I can save without drinking that it's nothing compared with the money lost.
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I only binge drink at the weekends and sometimes Mon, Tue, (Wed)....I often go 1 - 2 weeks without thinking about it but as soon as I start BOOM. It's a destructive force in my life.
I will be fine this week and am excited about the meeting on Fri eve.
Thanks so much for your concern
I will be fine this week and am excited about the meeting on Fri eve.
Thanks so much for your concern
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Even though I:-
Spent all my money.
Lost my wallet, phone and coat.
Did a load of sh*t I regret and feel terrible about.
Didn't see my girlfriend.
Have had horrible withdrawal for the past four days (and counting) including; smelly sweats, upset stomach, squits, shakes, anxiety, depression, dread....and now 'just' feel like I have the flu...
Spent all my money.
Lost my wallet, phone and coat.
Did a load of sh*t I regret and feel terrible about.
Didn't see my girlfriend.
Have had horrible withdrawal for the past four days (and counting) including; smelly sweats, upset stomach, squits, shakes, anxiety, depression, dread....and now 'just' feel like I have the flu...
Good luck!
I shiver when I think of Thursdays where I literally would only have less than a dollar in my checking account and not being able to drink because of it (and I make "good" money, by most peoples' standards).
If I didn't have money in funds/etc that I could not access without major penalties I am sure I would have nothing today. Everything I had I spent, and if it wasn't on alcohol it was on bad food, etc to recover from the effects of it.
I promise you this, if you can keep it up, you will be AMAZED how it feels to be in control of not only your drinking, but also your finances and everything else you regret while binging. And I was a binge drinker too. But now that I am older, I found my binges lasted longer and longer. The disease DOES progress. Proud of you. Keep it up.
Lee
If I didn't have money in funds/etc that I could not access without major penalties I am sure I would have nothing today. Everything I had I spent, and if it wasn't on alcohol it was on bad food, etc to recover from the effects of it.
I promise you this, if you can keep it up, you will be AMAZED how it feels to be in control of not only your drinking, but also your finances and everything else you regret while binging. And I was a binge drinker too. But now that I am older, I found my binges lasted longer and longer. The disease DOES progress. Proud of you. Keep it up.
Lee
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I totally believe that good things can come out of the seemingly worst situations. If this bender gives you the impetus to get sober and stay sober, then you'll look on it as the greatest blessing of your life.
That's how I see my DUI from last October! A personal turning point!
You're gonna love a life free of the chaos and embarrassment these binges are causing you! Something to look forward to, for sure!
That's how I see my DUI from last October! A personal turning point!
You're gonna love a life free of the chaos and embarrassment these binges are causing you! Something to look forward to, for sure!
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