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Old 08-01-2015, 08:00 AM
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I'll answer this later when I have more time, but I wanted to say that I'm almost at a month, too. I haven't felt this great in a long time!
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Old 08-01-2015, 08:06 AM
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Every day sober id an accomplishment for us alcoholics!
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Old 08-01-2015, 09:20 AM
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Congrats! First month of total badass Av buttkickin!
"I don't drink" how effin liberating is that? Right?! Keep that sentiment and mental stance, the AV wants us to say " aw, no thanks, I'm trying not to drink"
as if it's an option. Take it off the table as an option and the AV argument loses its merit, the argument will pop up less and less and be more easily dismissed, starve it Out.
Onward!
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Old 08-01-2015, 09:21 AM
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Great work Carver, keep controlling your own destiny.

You and I are fellow day 30s!
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Old 08-01-2015, 10:21 AM
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Congrats on one month, keep reaping those rewards.
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Old 08-01-2015, 10:24 AM
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I'm not going to drink for a couple reasons. First of all it's made me a lonely, frightened old man.
Secondly, it removes hope.
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Old 08-01-2015, 12:20 PM
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People don't need explanations, not everyone drinks, and we don't have to put up with the hassle!!

1 Month is fantastic!!
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Old 08-01-2015, 01:41 PM
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Great job Carver. Be proud, and keep it going.

I do not drink currently because I can't (or shouldn't) but I do not intend to pick up again. Being sober for a couple months has proven to me that its not "horrible" not being able to drink. To the contrary, its pretty rewarding.
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Old 08-01-2015, 01:51 PM
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Great job carver. One month is awesome keep up the good work. "Sober stick" lol I like it
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Old 08-01-2015, 01:52 PM
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I'm not going to drink because it changed me. I allowed it to change me. I didn't face my problems but let them fester. I'm not going to drink because I come here and see your messages of hope and strength.
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Old 08-01-2015, 01:55 PM
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Because it turns me into someone I don't like or respect.
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Old 08-01-2015, 02:13 PM
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When I drink, I turn into a destructive a**hole and ruin everyone's life around me. Why in the hell would I ever want to do that again?!
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Old 08-01-2015, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Carver View Post
One month sober today!! This isn't a huge amount of time, but for me it's something to be proud of. I'm still struggling with the AV, but I'm getting so good at hitting it with the sober stick until it goes away The extra weight I've struggled with for years is just dropping off. I no longer need a nap every day. I have more energy, my moods are more stable, I'm able to spend time playing with my daughter. I deal with stress better. My memory has started to improve. I feel glad to be alive. I was offered a beer by a friend yesterday. This is the first time someone's offered me a drink since being sober. Without hesitation, I said "No thanks, I don't drink." So when people ask me why I don't drink, I think of what life was like when I did drink. No way do I want to go back to that pitiful existence. Thank you all at SR for your inspiring stories. I don't post often, but I read a lot. Could not have got this far without you. You're awesome!
Carver, I was just about to give in to my AV and go to the store for a bottle of wine when I logged on to SR, saw your post, and was reminded why that's a terrible idea. Thank you ☺️
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