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Old 02-24-2016, 03:44 AM
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Thank you for sharing this Calicofish! And thank you for showing us that it can be done, even if life is difficult.

If you don't mind, what is your mindset towards alcohol now?
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Hi Mike:

My mindset towards alcohol you ask. I don't drink alcohol and I will never change my mind, no matter what. It is that simple.

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Congratulations, Calicofish. Your story is inspiring.
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Old 02-24-2016, 04:02 AM
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Hi Mike:

My mindset towards alcohol you ask. I don't drink alcohol and I will never change my mind, no matter what. It is that simple.

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Old 02-24-2016, 04:03 AM
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Mike - if you go to the secular recovery forum, you can read many threads about AVRT. That is the recovery method I use.

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Congratulations on your year CalicoFish

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Fantastic Calicofish, congrats on one year!
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Old 02-24-2016, 06:13 AM
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Welcome Calicofish and congratulations on 1 year. I was a bit confused there didn't know if you had 4 days sobriety or 1 year. I only thought that for a second or was that a year? (smiley). You are sober and that's all that counts.
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Congratulations on 1 year sober, CF! It's great to see your progress in the thread.

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Old 02-24-2016, 06:27 AM
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Congratulations! That's awesome!!
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Old 02-24-2016, 06:32 AM
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Welcome Calicofish and congratulations on 1 year. I was a bit confused there didn't know if you had 4 days sobriety or 1 year. I only thought that for a second or was that a year? (smiley). You are sober and that's all that counts.
Hi Steely - I realized when I bumped my old thread that it would be a bit confusing, but I wanted to show to newbies who are suffering and wondering whether they can make it, that yes you can. I wanted to show that we all suffer and sometimes if seems hopeless, but, with effort and keeping your eyes on the prize it's doable. I wanted to show how far I've come since those first crappy days, where a life without alcohol just seemed impossible.

I am going to bump this thread again on Feb. 24, 2017.

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Fantastic job on the past year CF!!
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Old 02-24-2016, 12:47 PM
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Hi Calicofish, now I get it. I'm a newbie to forums so bumping a thread was out of my sewing basket. Blush. Congratulations on one year and going through many trials and remaining sober. I'm 2 months and wouldn't change it for the world. Thanks.
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Old 02-24-2016, 12:56 PM
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The only way from day 2 to infinity is day 3. Just get through today without drinking. Tomorrow will take care of itself.

Your dog will want you to be sober during her last days/weeks/months. She wont want to look up at you staring into an empty glass, or bottle, or getting mad when she wants to go outside but you dont feel like getting up.

She will want you to take her for a walk, or play with her favorite toy, or just sit together while you read a book. She will want to curl up next to you without having you have to get up to use the bathroom every 10 minutes because you drank that much. She will want you to smile at her when you wake up, instead of frown because of a nasty hangover.

Be the person your dog thinks you are. Be there for her like she is always there for you.

My dog's life is coming to an end (my first pet) due to his cancer being back. Might be next week, might be next year, we dont know. All I know is that today, I will stay sober, and treat him like he has loved me from the start. A lot of people say that dogs take their pain away, but I think that works both ways. The owner takes the dogs pain away when the dog is sick because that is all they want is to be with you and enjoy the day with you. And THAT to them makes them feel better.

Keep going. Day2 will turn into week 2 and month 2... just stay sober today.
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Old 02-24-2016, 02:18 PM
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Hi Jryan:

I bumped an old post of mine from last year - and thanks for the encouragement. I really appreciate it.

I absolutely was sober for the passing of my sweet dog. I held her in my arms when she drew her first breath and when she drew her last.

Warmly,
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I just love this kind of thread, I have one of my own that I keep bumping every month so newcomers can read all of my story in one place.

Congratulations on 1 year Calicofish!
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Congratulations Calicofish. Getting all those firsts out of the way is important. I too just hit a year, and read here every day. It's so helpful.

Well done.
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Originally Posted by Calicofish View Post
Hi Jryan:

I bumped an old post of mine from last year - and thanks for the encouragement. I really appreciate it.

I absolutely was sober for the passing of my sweet dog. I held her in my arms when she drew her first breath and when she drew her last.

Warmly,
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Oh man I didn't even notice. I'm sorry about the passing of your dog. I'm sure she appreciated you being sober! That is awesome! Great job! Good for you. She'll be there at the end of the rainbow bridge waiting for you.
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Old 02-24-2016, 08:02 PM
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"Turns out, most of the people only have one or two glasses "??? Who knew?

Congratulations. Thanks your posts helped me.
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