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Old 11-22-2014, 04:50 AM
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31 days and so far so good.

Well, it has been 31 days and so far things are going fine. I feel pretty good. I didn't try and change anything else during that first thirty, I just focused on not drinking. I've had some cravings and a few battles with the AV.

One thing I've notice over the last week and a half is my thought process is up and down. The first couple of weeks I could feel my mind getting clearer and in week two I really felt sharp mentally. Last week I found myself in several situations where I had trouble putting a coherent sentence together. A couple of times basic vocabulary escaped me. I was giving a presentation on Thursday and couldn't come up with the word "box."

Have others experienced this back and forth intellect? From drunk, to genius, to dunce! LOL!
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Old 11-22-2014, 05:05 AM
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Well done on a month sober, Dirk !

Yes, I am experiecning that at the moment. I'm on day 42, and I've had that too- clarity then stupidity ! An old timer at AA told me that it is normal.

I feel like there are gaps in my memory , and have trouble remembering basic words too sometimes, and occasionally I cannot recall memories, or tell if they were dreams or reality. I know they are there but I can't access them.

I think our brains take a while to readjust, all the chemicals and neural pathways are rebalancing.

But if you are worried, perhaps a visit to the doc ?
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Hi Dirk well done on 31 days

Yes early sobriety is like a roller coaster but it will all start to easier

Congrats
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Congratulations and keep truckin.

Alcohol affects a lot of us differently, naturally the amount consumed matters. I’d personally give it a couple more months to self repair without concentrating too much about it as our minds can do some gymnastics and give us unnecessary concerns.
Perhaps in a month or so if it’s still a concern see your doctor and be honest with him/her about your drinking.
In the meantime allow the body to rebuild by not drinking one day at a time in a row.

BE WELL
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Great Job@@
Highly Inspirational!!!!

Yes, I couldn't remember the name of that stabby thing we use to eat with......Oh right! A Fork!!!!

I learned to adapt......now I just ask for a spoon
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This is great news Dirk. I'm really glad to hear you are doing well.
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That's great! You give me hope! :-)
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Congrats on 31 days! Things will keep improving, keep up the great work!
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Old 11-22-2014, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted by JanieJ View Post

I feel like there are gaps in my memory , and have trouble remembering basic words too sometimes, and occasionally I cannot recall memories, or tell if they were dreams or reality. I know they are there but I can't access them.
OMG Janie me too!!! This was around week three. That scared me!

Congrats Dirk on 31 days, that's awesome. I am right behind ya with 35 days so what you are going through is totally normal! Hang in there!!!
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Thanks for sharing this. I'm just two weeks in, but last week at work I had a day where I felt completely spaced out like the mental fog of a hangover. It was just like you said that I was worried I wouldn't be able to even make a sentence. It's at least comforting to know it can happen.
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I'm 2 years sober and it still happens to me. It scared me for awhile, now I just understand and accept it. A counselor told me that it could take up to 3 years to heal because of the amount of poisons I put in my body. No worries friend, were all getting better one day at a time. =)
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Thanks for the input and support guys! I really appreciate it!
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I felt very much the same! I didn't start to feel much clearer more consistently till about three months.
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Yes! Some days I'd feel sharp, then others my mind just wouldn't work ... words/calculations/whatever that would usually be intuitive just wouldn't appear in my minds eye.
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Congratulations Dirk

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Congrats on the first of many sober months.
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Old 11-22-2014, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Flynbuy View Post
Great Job@@
Highly Inspirational!!!!

Yes, I couldn't remember the name of that stabby thing we use to eat with......Oh right! A Fork!!!!

I learned to adapt......now I just ask for a spoon
Lol, Fly !! How about asking for a spork ? Or is that just too confusing ?
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