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Old 11-14-2014, 09:17 PM
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I'm a salesman. And an alcoholic. I've tried but never been able to quit and now I am finally in the arms of a woman who loves me and I am living with her. I moved States to be with her and came out here with no set job and she still wanted me out here. She paid for everything and I repaid her by getting drunk and saying mean things to her. She still told me nothing about my Alcoholism. I got a job that is paying me incredibly well and with commission on top, sky's the limit. I celebrate by getting drunk and Acting like an ******* again. I am done. Now and forever. I hate what I have done to her and what I become when I drink. My body aches. My sides burn.. It takes three days just to feel sober after the brutal hangovers. I have had enough. So now, I'm here. I'm an alcoholic.
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Old 11-14-2014, 09:22 PM
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Welcome to SR. at least you know you have a problem. Time to change.....
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Old 11-14-2014, 09:25 PM
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sounds like you are ready- welcome!!
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Old 11-14-2014, 09:29 PM
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Old 11-14-2014, 09:31 PM
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Hi and Welcome!

3 day hangovers? ... I can relate exactly
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Old 11-14-2014, 10:22 PM
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Old 11-15-2014, 01:20 AM
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Welcome, Justlookin. You're in the right place

Do you have a plan to keep yourself sober ? A recovery program, changing your routine ? There's lots of advice here, look around.
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Old 11-15-2014, 02:07 AM
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No plans yet. I'm here because AA scares the crap out of me and I'm not overly religious. I respect that aspect of it, but I don't feel comfortable with going along with it if I don't feel the same. Right now it's just me and my determination not to disappoint the woman I love and myself.
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Old 11-15-2014, 04:40 AM
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Old 11-15-2014, 05:38 AM
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Oh great. Do we really need another alcoholic around here?

Damn skippy right we do!

Welcome. Congratulations on your decision to live a sober life.

There are alternatives to AA. You can find plenty of good information about those alternatives by reading around the various forums here.
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Old 11-15-2014, 05:40 AM
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Hi and welcome.
You are among people who understand the results of alcoholism, the solution is so simple but not always easy: Just don’t drink even if our A$$ falls off. It’s amazing how positive our life goes by that simple action. Stick around and read a bunch of posts for good ideas about how to do it.
Be aware it’s long term work requiring change but many have accomplished it with great end results.

BE WELL
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Old 11-15-2014, 06:04 AM
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Welcome to the family. SR helped me get and stay sober, almost five years now. I hope we can help you get sober for good.
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Old 11-15-2014, 06:45 AM
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A warm welcome to you. SR is truly a lifeline. Things are good post, things not good post 100x more. Happy to have you with us.
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Old 11-15-2014, 10:37 AM
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This is a good place, I can see that. The hardest part is the beginning. I've tried this before. I NEED this to succeed. My body and my relationship depend on it.
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Old 11-15-2014, 11:37 AM
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Welcome to SR, justlookin.
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