Death in the family
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Join Date: Oct 2014
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I'm so sorry for your loss 
We're never ready to lose someone, no matter what the circumstances. I've experienced grieving whilst drinking and grieving whilst sober.....huge difference. Sobering up and staying that way, gives you a chance to grieve in a way that lets you come through to the other side of it. That's my experience anyway. Look after youselves x
We're never ready to lose someone, no matter what the circumstances. I've experienced grieving whilst drinking and grieving whilst sober.....huge difference. Sobering up and staying that way, gives you a chance to grieve in a way that lets you come through to the other side of it. That's my experience anyway. Look after youselves x
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 13,497
Soberwolf,
I am so very sorry. A huge loss..so young. She is free from pain now, and as you say, with the angels in perfect peace and light.
I want to say how wonderful it is that she had 25 years sober ....living life as she was meant to, and I would imagine she appreciated every day. I am just sorry that her time was so short.. but well lived is good. She would be very happy to see you being strong and taking care of yourself.
thinking of you and your gf... you are both in my prayers.
May your Godmother rest sweetly in peace.
I am so very sorry. A huge loss..so young. She is free from pain now, and as you say, with the angels in perfect peace and light.
I want to say how wonderful it is that she had 25 years sober ....living life as she was meant to, and I would imagine she appreciated every day. I am just sorry that her time was so short.. but well lived is good. She would be very happy to see you being strong and taking care of yourself.
thinking of you and your gf... you are both in my prayers.
May your Godmother rest sweetly in peace.
Do your best
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Join Date: Aug 2014
Posts: 67,047
Thank you all this has hit us and even tho we were expecting it ..it just hurts i tried to be on here yesterday and my emotions were all over the place same with last night today i broke down in tears and just asked god to take my pain away i ended up falling asleep ive woken up feel depressed but strong enough to post this we found out the burial will most prob be within a couple days of my mums 5 year anniversary
my gf and i are staying strong i dont want to drink altho im making cups of tea like its going out of fashion i rang my sponser yesterday and he really helped he said to be strong i said i know
this is the worst time of year for me
thank you all so very much my gf godmother lived a few doors down from my gf house its like an aunty more than a godmother
trying to focus on remembering the good times thanks guys so much from mrs and mr soberwolf
my gf and i are staying strong i dont want to drink altho im making cups of tea like its going out of fashion i rang my sponser yesterday and he really helped he said to be strong i said i know
this is the worst time of year for me
thank you all so very much my gf godmother lived a few doors down from my gf house its like an aunty more than a godmother
trying to focus on remembering the good times thanks guys so much from mrs and mr soberwolf
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Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: California
Posts: 1,312
Very sorry to hear about your loss SoberWolf. Losing those close to us is never easy but I know she is resting easy now.
Continue to honor her memory by staying strong and living sober.
Hope to see you in the meeting tonight.
Continue to honor her memory by staying strong and living sober.
Hope to see you in the meeting tonight.
A Day at a Time
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Grand Rapids MI
Posts: 6,435
I am very sorry for your loss and I wish I had some words of wisdom that would help with the pain.
These certainly are not fixes but they did help me
Death sucks but it is part of life. Take care my friend and always remember there is no problem alcohol wouldn't make worse
These certainly are not fixes but they did help me
Death sucks but it is part of life. Take care my friend and always remember there is no problem alcohol wouldn't make worse
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