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Old 10-29-2014, 04:28 AM
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Starting my first thread

Good morning everyone. Today is day 10 for me, and I decided I should start my first thread on SR. I have found not drinking has gone a little easier as I have gone on, but I think a big part of that right now is that it is not a weekend. I have seen a lot of people on here say that you need to not want to drink to be able to not too. I want to not drink, but I think if I were to be completely honest with myself I still want to drink. I would love to be able to drink responsibly with my family and friends, but I know that is not possible. Anyways, that is my thought for the morning, off to work. Have a great day everyone!
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Old 10-29-2014, 04:34 AM
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Congrats on day 10! We have a weekender thread here and if you need us, we are open 24/7.
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Old 10-29-2014, 04:34 AM
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Hi, johnny,Welcome !

Congratulations on 10 days sober

Yeah, initially that's what I wanted too, but I know that it's not possible for me to just have one or two.

Besides that, I have put so much booze and other poison in to my body over the years, that I just do not want to add to that any more.

As you probably know already ,there is tons of support here for you.
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Glad you're here!!

A desire to stop drinking and the willingness to change behaviors are imperatives. Want is another issue.....many of us may still want = wish we could. Then, even that fades for many......

Good Choice!

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Old 10-29-2014, 04:48 AM
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Hi and congratulations on your 10 days, it should get a bit easier each day.
As time goes by we have a tendency in our heads to want to be sober however many forget the reason we sought sobriety. It helps immensely to remember when and not act on our obsession to drink. Keep posting and perhaps try going to meetings for recovery.

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Old 10-29-2014, 04:56 AM
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Old 10-29-2014, 05:06 AM
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Well done on 10 days Johnny and nice first thread
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Old 10-29-2014, 05:11 AM
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Originally Posted by johnny821 View Post

I would love to be able to drink responsibly with my family and friends, but I know that is not possible.
Those were also my thoughts in the old days. It has taken time, but today booze and the desire for booze has been taken away from me. I count that as a blessing.

Welcome and 10 days sober is a real nice start.

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Old 10-29-2014, 05:20 AM
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Welcome Johnny, and great first post. 10 days is awesome. As others have said, it does get better. Sometimes I would still like to have a drink, but I know it would not be long before I was back to square one. Life without alcohol is much better. I hated the feeling of not being in control, letting myself and others down. Not remembering the night before. Feeling not good enough. A drink is just not worth it. I am glad you are on the journey with us. We are all here for you.
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Old 10-29-2014, 06:59 AM
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Welcome Johnny!
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Congrats on Day 10 and welcome!!
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Hi and Welcome, congrats on 10 days alcohol free!
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Welcome to the Forum Johnny!!
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Old 10-29-2014, 02:25 PM
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Thanks for all of the supportive messages everyone!
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Old 10-29-2014, 02:28 PM
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Welcome Johnny, and congratulations on 10 days! Well done!
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Welcome johnny, well done on 10 days!
Feel free to join us in the Class of October thread right here.
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Welcome to the family and congrats on ten days sober!
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Old 10-30-2014, 12:20 AM
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Welcome, Johnny821! Good to have you here and congrats on the first ten days.
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