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Old 10-21-2014, 04:51 PM
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When I started recovery, 8 years was beyond my understanding, too. So were 5 years, 15 years, 20...etc.

They told me to focus on one day-today-to be sober. Well, that's one of the basic concepts that I was lucky enough to really get.

One day at a time is a good concept.

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Old 10-21-2014, 05:19 PM
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Hi ID10T

It cant feel that good otherwise you wouldnt want to stop

it is hard but you can do it

keep reading put a plan in place
what does putting a plan together entail. i just broke down and bought more booze. i know i cant do aa, too much anxiety.
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Old 10-21-2014, 05:50 PM
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Not buying booze is a start. If AA is out try Rational Recovery or SMART of lifering. Or keep posting here and not drinking. Lots of options but all involve stop drinking.
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Old 10-21-2014, 09:52 PM
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Originally Posted by ID10T View Post
8 years? thats just unthinkable to me.
Every important achievement in my life was at one time "unthinkable" to me.

If you choose not to attempt anything in life because it is "unthinkable" or, as you commented, "too hard," then you'll never achieve anything. And the only thing left that will not be unthinkable is "what might have been."
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Old 10-21-2014, 10:00 PM
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Originally Posted by ID10T View Post
8 years? thats just unthinkable to me.
It was unthinkable to me too - I seriously could not get 4 days sober for 15 years.

but like ru said...it starts with little decisions like not buying booze...

little ripples can become great waves

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Old 10-21-2014, 10:08 PM
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Dee is, as always, quite right:

'From little things,
Big things come...'

Whilst that's an Aussie reference, of special poignancy right now, it's no different from 'a journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step'. That's how it just is for recovery to begin from alcoholism or any addiction.

Never give up! It's the booze in your brain making you believe you don't have it in you; it's not YOU yourself.
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Old 10-21-2014, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted by ID10T View Post
what does putting a plan together entail. i just broke down and bought more booze. i know i cant do aa, too much anxiety.
Well - we have the internet nowadays, so you can search and research options and tools for quitting from the comfort of your home and find your own answers.

How do you "know" you can't do AA? Have you tried?
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