starting over
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starting over
Married for 13.5 years of alcoholism and drug addiction. My spouse worked a program and was clean and sober for 1.5 years. I thought things were good. He took off on a 5 day bender. I decided to stick to what I said and " leave if it happened again" . I'm scared to death starting over at 49, responsible for 2 young children, haven't worked consecutively for 10 years. Anyone else out there made it later in life with no money, skills, home?
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Welcome, mysunshine. It's good to have you with us, although I'm sorry it's under these circumstances. I'm 45 but no wife or kids so I don't know what you're dealing with. But I have been on the other side. You know your situation better than I do but I think you have to do what's best for you. Addicts can change but they won't unless they want to. It's not something you want your kids around.
Hopefully someone will chime in with some practical advice, but til then keep your chin up. For your children if for no other reason.
Hopefully someone will chime in with some practical advice, but til then keep your chin up. For your children if for no other reason.
Life is an unlikely miracle.
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Welcome, Mysunshine. Sorry to hear of your situation. I started over from an abusive/co-dependant relationship at 45. I live in the UK, so I got some financial support until I got on my feet. If you want to pm me, please do.
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We have members here from all walks of like and situations mysunshine. I recommend you also check out our Family and Friends section as well?
You'll find a lot of support here - I'm really glad you found us
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You'll find a lot of support here - I'm really glad you found us
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