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10-15-2014, 08:08 PM

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Coldfusion

Sobriety is Traditional

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I am so sorry to hear this, Pam. Sending prayers for you and your family...

10-15-2014, 08:12 PM

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MariahGayle

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((hugs)) & love to you Pam - I am sorry

10-15-2014, 08:27 PM

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colagirl

getting there

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Location: USA

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Oh wow, I am so, so sorry. Deep breaths and take it a minute at a time.

10-15-2014, 09:00 PM

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Lola23

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Oh Raider. I am so very sorry for your loss.

10-15-2014, 09:36 PM

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Briar

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Location: California

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My heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sorry you have to go through this.

10-15-2014, 09:46 PM

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MythOfSisyphus

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Posts: 5,937

I'm so sorry for your loss, Pam. My brother is probable the person I'm closest to in this world, and I'd be lost without him. When my dad passed three years ago I went on a bender that probably should have killed me, so at least I can tell you what not to do!

Hang in there, Raider!

10-15-2014, 10:02 PM

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Jeni26

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Location: South East England

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I'm so sorry Pam, what a tragedy. There are no words, but I will be thinking and praying for you.

Please remember that drinking is perhaps the worst thing you could do right now.

Stay close x

10-15-2014, 10:15 PM

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pupkin

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I'm so sorry, Raider. Words aren't enough.

10-15-2014, 10:17 PM

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MavisTheFairy13

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Posts: 668

So sorry for your loss

(((hugs)))

10-15-2014, 10:34 PM

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MelindaFlowers

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Location: California

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I am so sorry for your loss Pam. ((((Raider))))

10-16-2014, 12:02 AM

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Marcher13

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Posts: 6,224

I am so sorry for the loss of your sister Raider. I hope that being reunited with your family brings you some comfort.

10-16-2014, 01:08 AM

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bemyself

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Location: Melbourne, Victoria Australia

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Oh, Raider, what a shock for you. I'll be thinking of you as you go through these next few days especially.
XX
Victoria

10-16-2014, 02:38 AM

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goose333

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I am so sorry Raider. Please don't drink. When your AV starts talking, just tell it to shut up. Then ask your sister what you should do. She knows what's best.

10-16-2014, 02:41 AM

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Trying2bhappy

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Location: Deep South, US

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I'm so sorry. You are in my prayers.

10-16-2014, 03:08 AM

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Fandy

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Location: NJ

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Pam, i am so very sorry for you and your parents. They need your strength, you can lean on us too.
Your sister knows how much you love her.

10-16-2014, 03:38 AM

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EJ43

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Join Date: Feb 2014

Location: South Shore, MA

Posts: 348

Oh Raider. I can't imagine. I have a sister that I
Am incredibly close to and makes me feel for your loss. We are all here for you during this difficult time. Whenever you are in doubt, think about how she would want you to handle this. Stay strong for her and honor her. Walking through pain is never easy. You are a wonderful lady and your family will surely be consoled by you and vice versa, hang in.

10-16-2014, 03:41 AM

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Croissant

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Location: Sydney Australia

Posts: 4,225

Pam, this is terrible news.

So sad to see this has happened and can't even imagine the great pain you are feeling right now.

10-16-2014, 05:41 AM

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doggonecarl

Canine Welfare Advocate

Join Date: Sep 2010

Location: Norfolk, VA

Posts: 10,962

Quote:

Originally Posted by Raider

What do I do. What do you do. I don't know.

You grieve, that's what you do. And you find the strength within to help your mom and dad through this terrible tragedy, and your sister's family if she has one through marriage. And together you honor your sister's memory.

And you don't drink.