Taking a break from SR
Stay. You can do this. That's why we are here- to keep reminding you of that.
you dont have to wonder... it does involve a bit of willpower but the main reason i dont drink
is understanding that it just doesnt solve anything and makes things worse
think of drinking like walking round in a circle constantly its no way to live
is understanding that it just doesnt solve anything and makes things worse
think of drinking like walking round in a circle constantly its no way to live
stood my ground stayed cool stayed sober
in my first week of sobriety somebody i know died of alcoholism
i had a choice i wont drink no matter what......or i risk death
pls dont take this in a bad light i mean it in the best way possible
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Holy cow...you're doing a whole lot of anticipatory thinking and drinking. You have a vacation on October 10th..where you "think" you might not be able to handle it..so you drank on September 25 in preparation so you wouldn't feel "guilt" for the "presumed" drinking on October 10 and beyond?
Thats a helluva lotta of future getting you out of being sober today.
I know that getting out of today and thinking bout what I will do before the situation actually arrives creates a whole lot of anxiety in the present.
I wish you well... a new day New Day...I hope you see how you got yourself all tangled up in a future you only have to control when you get there.
Thats a helluva lotta of future getting you out of being sober today.
I know that getting out of today and thinking bout what I will do before the situation actually arrives creates a whole lot of anxiety in the present.
I wish you well... a new day New Day...I hope you see how you got yourself all tangled up in a future you only have to control when you get there.
Holy cow...you're doing a whole lot of anticipatory thinking and drinking. You have a vacation on October 10th..where you "think" you might not be able to handle it..so you drank on September 25 in preparation so you wouldn't feel "guilt" for the "presumed" drinking on October 10 and beyond?
Thats a helluva lotta of future getting you out of being sober today.
Thats a helluva lotta of future getting you out of being sober today.
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Join Date: Sep 2014
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Ironically, the only thing that can convince some of us that drinking isn't a good idea, is more drinks.
The unfortunate part of that equation is the Russian Roulette we play with our lives and the lives of those around us and of the wider community itself.
I took to drinking by myself and giving the car keys to my wife.
Then one day, it just happened, sick and tired of being sick and tired.
I still managed to lose a fair bit even though practising a type of "harm minimisation " drinking technique.
I pray your "sick and tired " awakening happens sooner than later.
But I know you have to get to that desperate lonely place in your own way.
God speed
The unfortunate part of that equation is the Russian Roulette we play with our lives and the lives of those around us and of the wider community itself.
I took to drinking by myself and giving the car keys to my wife.
Then one day, it just happened, sick and tired of being sick and tired.
I still managed to lose a fair bit even though practising a type of "harm minimisation " drinking technique.
I pray your "sick and tired " awakening happens sooner than later.
But I know you have to get to that desperate lonely place in your own way.
God speed
Holy cow...you're doing a whole lot of anticipatory thinking and drinking. You have a vacation on October 10th..where you "think" you might not be able to handle it..so you drank on September 25 in preparation so you wouldn't feel "guilt" for the "presumed" drinking on October 10 and beyond?
Thats a helluva lotta of future getting you out of being sober today.
I know that getting out of today and thinking bout what I will do before the situation actually arrives creates a whole lot of anxiety in the present.
I wish you well... a new day New Day...I hope you see how you got yourself all tangled up in a future you only have to control when you get there.
Thats a helluva lotta of future getting you out of being sober today.
I know that getting out of today and thinking bout what I will do before the situation actually arrives creates a whole lot of anxiety in the present.
I wish you well... a new day New Day...I hope you see how you got yourself all tangled up in a future you only have to control when you get there.
Oh gosh, just put down that bottle. What agony.
I understand those tough days, ANewDayNYC! At first they were a big challenge to my sobriety but now they almost reinforce it. Guess it's my stubborn streak. If I drink then that means my problems have beaten me, and I won't allow that.
Hang in there...tomorrow is another day!
Hang in there...tomorrow is another day!
Anewdaynyc, we are stronger than our excuses. Don't let excuses get in the way of your future. My last relapse sent me spiraling downward, drinking started earlier in the morning and more often at work.
We all have the cravings, the temptations, that urge to just have a few drinks and everything will be great. Read through the experiences of this community. I havent read a single post that said their relapse experience was great, well worth the time and effort. Usually it's tourcherous days or months later that we are still clawing our way back to sober happiness.
I'm back at 81 days today and wish I hadn't given into drinking for the month of june this year.
Best wishes your way!
We all have the cravings, the temptations, that urge to just have a few drinks and everything will be great. Read through the experiences of this community. I havent read a single post that said their relapse experience was great, well worth the time and effort. Usually it's tourcherous days or months later that we are still clawing our way back to sober happiness.
I'm back at 81 days today and wish I hadn't given into drinking for the month of june this year.
Best wishes your way!
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I'm still waiting for anyone to deliver a positive report on that front too ccam.
I have never been around to hear one yet.
The only silver lining seems to be that the experiment crushed out any last hope of a successful resumption.
I have never been around to hear one yet.
The only silver lining seems to be that the experiment crushed out any last hope of a successful resumption.
I'm just coming off the back of a "break from SR", in the form of a 4 month relapse. This relapse was pretty dark and deep for me.......This is the first time I can honestly say to myself with out hearing the lie in my voice that I won't go back this time.
You don't sound ready to quit, you're planning your relapses and relapsing at the thought of your planned relapse. You will never make it until you feel ready and have finished with all the excuses you're head gives at the thought of quitting.
You don't sound ready to quit, you're planning your relapses and relapsing at the thought of your planned relapse. You will never make it until you feel ready and have finished with all the excuses you're head gives at the thought of quitting.
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