well.... CRAP.
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well.... CRAP.
Found out some bad things are coming at work. Probably means a number of jobs are at risk, probably including mine.
Funny enough, I find myself optimistic and even oddly-energized at the notion. Been re-tooling my CV and networking like crazy, starting to apply for other jobs and dream of a new chapter in life that is more rewarding and fun.
While I have occasional flits of anxiety over the potential prospect of being unemployed and at risk - given all the financial obligations I have that I would not be able to meet for even a month - mostly I just feel like it's gonna be just fine.
Now, I can't say for certain, but I have a strong suspicion that I wouldn't be able to say these positive things and wouldn't be feeling quite so sunny about it were I not facing this with 197 days of sobriety behind me.
Life happens. Booze doesn't need to
Happy Sober Sunday to ya!!!
Funny enough, I find myself optimistic and even oddly-energized at the notion. Been re-tooling my CV and networking like crazy, starting to apply for other jobs and dream of a new chapter in life that is more rewarding and fun.
While I have occasional flits of anxiety over the potential prospect of being unemployed and at risk - given all the financial obligations I have that I would not be able to meet for even a month - mostly I just feel like it's gonna be just fine.
Now, I can't say for certain, but I have a strong suspicion that I wouldn't be able to say these positive things and wouldn't be feeling quite so sunny about it were I not facing this with 197 days of sobriety behind me.
Life happens. Booze doesn't need to
Happy Sober Sunday to ya!!!
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Phew! I'm so glad this is not a relapse post, not from you, FreeOwl. You always sound so strong and, yes, in line with your name, very wise! 
I'm really sorry to hear about the job, but with an attitude like yours, I know you'll be fine
I'm really sorry to hear about the job, but with an attitude like yours, I know you'll be fine
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Have you seen the movie "Chef" ? I saw it last night and it was exactly describing what you are facing. This chef loses his job in a high brow restaurant only to find his heart and soul owning a food truck.
Who knew that some of life's greatest gifts could be unanswered prayers ?
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Who knew that some of life's greatest gifts could be unanswered prayers ?
XO AO
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never seen it, but a good friend of mine did almost exactly that about two years ago. Lost his job, bought a food truck, found the job of his dreams.
There's a lot to consider; child support, mortgage, bills, financial savings of which there are NONE in my early 40's..... it's sort of daunting, but I know it will all be OK. I'm excited to see what unfolds.
I may have to look up that movie for inspiration!
There's a lot to consider; child support, mortgage, bills, financial savings of which there are NONE in my early 40's..... it's sort of daunting, but I know it will all be OK. I'm excited to see what unfolds.
I may have to look up that movie for inspiration!
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Thanks everyone!
I generally do try and approach things with positivity, but looking back on my life I can see that I'd have a much worse attitude about this and not have already taken the actions I have to deal with were I not sober.
It's very empowering to take action and to start looking forward to what may come about from this, instead of running off on a good bender.
I generally do try and approach things with positivity, but looking back on my life I can see that I'd have a much worse attitude about this and not have already taken the actions I have to deal with were I not sober.
It's very empowering to take action and to start looking forward to what may come about from this, instead of running off on a good bender.
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Great attitude to have, do not be a victim of the "tyranny of events." Losing your current job could just be a door to getting a better opportunity somewhere else, or perhaps it spurs you to start looking for better opportunities (as it seems you are).
Best of luck!
Best of luck!
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Hi FreeOwl. I'm sorry for the upheaval at work - always an upsetting thing, even when it does turn out for the best. (Which I'm sure it will.)
Every time I had something like this happen I ran for the shelter of a drink (or 10). I spent so many years thinking I was actually calming myself down during times of trouble - but it only added to my anxiety & despair. Facing things straight on with a clear head is the only way. Wish it hadn't taken me decades to get it.
Every time I had something like this happen I ran for the shelter of a drink (or 10). I spent so many years thinking I was actually calming myself down during times of trouble - but it only added to my anxiety & despair. Facing things straight on with a clear head is the only way. Wish it hadn't taken me decades to get it.
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Free Owl, your attitude is wonderful. My husband was laid off from his banking job during the height of the recession. To get back on our feet, we went through our savings, had to sell our beloved family home for pennies on the dollar and start fresh in a whole new state with our four children. And as hard as that situation was, I wouldn't change a thing. We came to terms that we hadn't been living our priorities in forever, and we got a chance to get back to who we really are, a very, loving and connected family. My husband used to work 24/7 and now he has a great work life balance. I am now doing the things that bring me joy in life instead of living up to an image. Our marriage is stronger and most importantly, I am sober, which having a "fresh start" really helped me. Oh, and we have savings again. You are going to be better than fine!
And yes, you have a great attitude.
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