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Old 12-16-2013, 07:02 PM
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Thinking about using? Well my friend is now dead because he did

My friend was the new victim of addiction. He overdosed yesterday.

Just goes to show you not to go back out. It could of been me. It could of been you.

We had a short little relapse together for the past week or two. I realized it was ridiculous and we had to stop so i told him we gotta stop talking to each other because we trigger each other......he sort of agreed but I dont think he really had intentions of stopping. I stopped, he didnt. He's now dead.

We were just talking about how stupid it is that people do so much that they end up overdosing. He never thought it would happen to him, well it did and now he's dead.

That's the thing about overdosing, you never think its gunna happen to you, until it does.

Stay strong.
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Old 12-16-2013, 07:04 PM
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I'm very sorry for your loss FallenAlien.
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So sorry for your lose. We never know if we will make it back
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Hi FallenAlien, sorry to hear of your loss of your friend.
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Sorry about your friend and it's a great point. I don't think about that consequence a lot, but there's plenty of ways alcohol could've gotten me dead over the years.
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my heart hurts for you falling. peace to you and your friend. addiction is a deadly and sorrowful affliction. we have to support each other.
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So sorry for your loss x
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Oh my god, I'm so very sorry
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Old 12-16-2013, 07:29 PM
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This is so sad, How old was he?
I have lost so many people to drugs..dead..dead is forever.
How are you? what a conversation to have..
I hope you are ok. please take care of your self, have you got someone to talk to? ♥
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So sorry to hear this, Fallen. So tough. Thoughts and prayers to you and your friend.
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I am sorry for the loss of your friend. Addiction is a tragic disease.
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I'm sorry for your loss, Fallen. We all need to take a lesson from this. Thank you for sharing the news with us, so we can.
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Im sorry. godbless.
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Old 12-16-2013, 10:39 PM
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Originally Posted by FallenAlien View Post

My friend was the new victim of addiction. He overdosed yesterday.
very sorry for your loss of a friend

take care of yourself -- it's about all you can do

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I'm sorry for your loss.
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Old 12-17-2013, 01:30 AM
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Sorry about your friend, FallenAlien. You are 100% correct- when you relapse or don't take sobriety seriously you're playing Russian roulette with your life. That makes me vigilant in guarding against complacency. I was very lucky that I was able to stop cold turkey on the first attempt. It may not be so "easy" the next time, and if I let there be a next time it may be the last.
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Old 12-17-2013, 04:03 AM
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Thanks for sharing at a time like this . ...so sorry for your loss fallenallen stay strong xxx
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Old 12-17-2013, 04:24 AM
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FallenAllan, an amazing post. Of course I am sorry about your friend but it happens so often. Your post about it is one of the most powerful messages I have ever seen. Thanks.
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