FeelingGreat

Hi Tabbj, I second everything Jaynie says, and can I also urge you to talk to a DV helpline? Your husband doesn't have to be physically violent for you to seek help; he is abusing you by not taking on his financial responsibilities and letting you struggle under a burden of debt. He should also be including you on his insurance. Beyond that there is the emotional abuse. A DV helpline could put you in touch with other free resources such as legal help. Do some research, no need to let hubby know, and get your ducks in a row. Once you have some idea of your rights you can think about taking action. All the best.