AA disaster... Gawww!
Glad you are feeling a little better.
That made me cry just reading about you crying. And probably for the same reason. Because it was inspiring and insightful.
After years of not feeling human, I embrace those moments.
Congratulations on day 4 Jackie!!! You can do it!
After years of not feeling human, I embrace those moments.
Congratulations on day 4 Jackie!!! You can do it!
[QUOTE=Jackie38;4236101 When it came time to hand out the chips, I started crying and couldn't stop. What an embarrassment. I wish I had looked up what to expect before I went in there. I'm sure I made an ass of myself.... [/QUOTE]
Why not cry? You have suffered so much and others have too. Is it not in a way like coming home? Coming to a place which is safe for you, where there are people who have been through what you have been through and who can help one another and be with you? It's the beginning of a long wonderful road to sobriety for you and most people would cry because that means that happiness is possible. You will find that your new friends are not perfect because no one is but they mean well. You may not agree with everything they say. But that's O.K. The only requirement for "membership" is the desire to stop drinking. You can go to several different groups and go where you feel the most comfortable. Good luck. Every good wish to you.
W.
Why not cry? You have suffered so much and others have too. Is it not in a way like coming home? Coming to a place which is safe for you, where there are people who have been through what you have been through and who can help one another and be with you? It's the beginning of a long wonderful road to sobriety for you and most people would cry because that means that happiness is possible. You will find that your new friends are not perfect because no one is but they mean well. You may not agree with everything they say. But that's O.K. The only requirement for "membership" is the desire to stop drinking. You can go to several different groups and go where you feel the most comfortable. Good luck. Every good wish to you.
W.
It's normal to find the chip ceremony, actually all of it, enormously emotional! You're being accepted, offered help, kindness. It's like being handed a promise of help and encouragement!
If I left every meeting I ever cried at I'd be at a new meeting every other week, probably more often. Seeing new alcoholics and helping them is what gives those with some time a reason to keep soldiering on. I'm glad you were so moved. It will make your sober journey so much easier!
If I left every meeting I ever cried at I'd be at a new meeting every other week, probably more often. Seeing new alcoholics and helping them is what gives those with some time a reason to keep soldiering on. I'm glad you were so moved. It will make your sober journey so much easier!
There been more meltdowns in AA then there have been sticks of butter in the microwave. Our emotions have been numbed for so long that they come flooding back especially at meetings. I can almost guarantee the only person that thought it was weird was you. Tears are good things it means you're starting to feel again and starting on your path to sobriety.
Keep coming back and shed as many tears as you need to.
Keep coming back and shed as many tears as you need to.
Other than bringing alcohol in...just about anything is OK at an AA meeting. Keep going and try different meetings. I have seen many women and men break down at meetings.
Since I've been sober I have not had one real cry and I feel like something is wrong with me...UGH...I remember how cleansing it can be.
Since I've been sober I have not had one real cry and I feel like something is wrong with me...UGH...I remember how cleansing it can be.
Of course it is silly, it is fully acceptable to cry. I find it very natural for other people to cry.
I do personally not cry in general and I would certainly not cry in front of a group of strangers.
I hid my feelings by stuffing them down wine bottles. I'm just another alcoholic woman, and I get all teary eyed at meetings too many times for me to remember. I read everybody's posted share to you, the love & support you received here at SR, I find it to be right there in my AA Meetings. You will too! As others told me, "Welcome Home". Bobbi
I am a crier but I hid it for years. My family always called me a cry baby so if I did cry, I did it alone. Now anger, you bet ya. When I was upset you and everyone else in the house knew about it!
I was afraid. I was afraid to be in AA. I was afraid of the people. I was afraid of what was expected of me and could I live up. I was afraid to be sober.
That chip let me know I was heading in the right direction. I was a mess and I cried and still cry.
It is okay to cry. It is cleansing. Get it out.
Keep coming back.
I was afraid. I was afraid to be in AA. I was afraid of the people. I was afraid of what was expected of me and could I live up. I was afraid to be sober.
That chip let me know I was heading in the right direction. I was a mess and I cried and still cry.
It is okay to cry. It is cleansing. Get it out.
Keep coming back.
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