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Old 01-23-2009, 01:34 PM
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Looking For Myself...Sober
 
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Noone can help you until you can help yourself.
Meaning..You need to make the first move. And then the right support and help will come from others. Not necessarily from your husband.
Sounds to me like he likes to have you under his thumb.
Take care of yourself and do what you have to for YOURSELF!
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Old 01-23-2009, 04:38 PM
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Just wanted to post to get you back on page 1 for those who may have missed your thread! We all want to support you! So glad you are here!

Hugs, :ghug
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Old 01-24-2009, 11:42 AM
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Just wanted to post to get you back on page 1 for those who may have missed your thread! We all want to support you! So glad you are here!

Hugs, :ghug
thank you...thank you all!

I'm trying, but I'm failing.

I want to keep trying till I get it right.
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Old 01-24-2009, 11:51 AM
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You're here!
I bet your not drinking right now!

You're NOT failing. You are seeking support, information & guideness!

THAT IS TRYING!

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Old 01-24-2009, 01:27 PM
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You may be faltering but you are not failing. You can't fail until you quit trying to quit and you are here so you are still trying and as long as you are trying you can't fail.
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Old 01-24-2009, 01:27 PM
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Kdudley,

How are you doing today? Really?

I need to get out of my head and into the solution and being there for others! I care about you and just want you to give an update, friend! Please post!
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Old 01-24-2009, 01:38 PM
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i'm way too early in recovery to give you good advice, but there are so much wise, experienced and lovely people here that can help you!!!!!!
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