scared and confused
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Join Date: Nov 2006
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scared and confused
hello this is my first time here.. and i am very scared and confused, my ex husband wants to be a family again, any women our there that has been in the same situation.. i would love to make it work, but i am scared i have come so far that i dont want to go back, all of these questions are in my mind, what if??? it doesnt work?? what if my children get hurt again?? what if I get hurt gain??? the ugly what if.. my family will disown me if I even consider going back, I dont even know why i am considering it.. what is wrong with me. thanks for listening
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Join Date: Jun 2002
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Welcome to SR!
Why not make a list of why it's a good idea
and then list why it is not?
Then you can see where you stand.
Take your time..there is no rush to make a decision.
Blessings to you and your family
Why not make a list of why it's a good idea
and then list why it is not?
Then you can see where you stand.
Take your time..there is no rush to make a decision.
Blessings to you and your family
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Hey there. Welcome to SR! Glad you found us.
Is your ex-husband an addict? I would assume so since you are seeking advice here. If so, I would suggest heading down to our Friends and Family or Naranon forums and seeking advice there as well as posting here. There are a lot of folks here who have been where you are right now. Hang in there!
Is your ex-husband an addict? I would assume so since you are seeking advice here. If so, I would suggest heading down to our Friends and Family or Naranon forums and seeking advice there as well as posting here. There are a lot of folks here who have been where you are right now. Hang in there!
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Join Date: Nov 2006
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Hi carol, that is true, writing the negative and positive down. I just feel like a cluts sometimes cuz for some reaseo, i have forgotten alot of the pain and suffering he put me through, and my family, thinks that i am stupid for letting all that anger go.
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When you don't know what to do, do nothing. It sounds like you already know the right answer. Sometimes the evil we know is more comforting than the unknown. Stay strong, you left for a reason. List all the things he has done and stay away. You and your children will get hurt again.
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