Class of August 2013 - Part 8
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Yes, I got it. "This too shall pass" and it already is settling down. My husband had to go in to emergency just now, so I think it's good he's gone for a while. I am going to take my horse out alone. Now, not to worry! I will be on the main trail. With a cell phone.
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I'm really glad you're staying strong and you dumped the pills Else.
Sometimes our partners just don't get it, that's why it's important for us to have some kind of support.
I think JD's suggestion of considering AA or NA is a good one. Real life people close at hand can make a difference.
Your husband may not like it, but this is your life and your recovery.
D
Sometimes our partners just don't get it, that's why it's important for us to have some kind of support.
I think JD's suggestion of considering AA or NA is a good one. Real life people close at hand can make a difference.
Your husband may not like it, but this is your life and your recovery.
D
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Originally Posted by Elseware 
You're absolutely right JD. I will make it through this. I had another talk with my husband and he agreed to at least hide and lock the pills in his truck and then hide the keys. So that they won't be just sitting there on the counter for me to act in an impulsive way. I would need to make getting them a very studied act. And I think I can handle not doing that. So we're on speaking terms again. He gets frustrated, too. It can't be easy living with someone as moody as I've been lately. It's so easy to forget the pain of addiction when it starts to be "back when".
I have been making bread like a crazy woman and enjoying it. I will try to send a picture of my latest loaf. A whole wheat molasses boule.
I have been making bread like a crazy woman and enjoying it. I will try to send a picture of my latest loaf. A whole wheat molasses boule.
Take care and as we all say,,this to will pass!
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Hi, All,
Elseware, good for you for dumping the stash. That took courage.
We are here for you.
Agree, maybe it's time to check out NA or AA?
Also, here is the information I found on Oregon docs who are board-certified in addiction medicine. This link should take you directly to the search results but if it doesn't, simply go to abam.net.
Find a Doctor | American Board of Addiction Medicine
Perhaps it would be helpful for your husband to take part in a conversation that involves another physician. I think I've mentioned on the threads before that I used to work in a non-clinical role for a couple large health care providers. At my previous job, I knew a board-certified addiction medicine specialist who was fantastic. He did a lot of consults with other specialists and is deeply respected.
My thoughts are with you. You are a butterfly. Butterflies need a little time when they emerge from the cocoon.
V.
Elseware, good for you for dumping the stash. That took courage.
We are here for you.
Agree, maybe it's time to check out NA or AA?
Also, here is the information I found on Oregon docs who are board-certified in addiction medicine. This link should take you directly to the search results but if it doesn't, simply go to abam.net.
Find a Doctor | American Board of Addiction Medicine
Perhaps it would be helpful for your husband to take part in a conversation that involves another physician. I think I've mentioned on the threads before that I used to work in a non-clinical role for a couple large health care providers. At my previous job, I knew a board-certified addiction medicine specialist who was fantastic. He did a lot of consults with other specialists and is deeply respected.
My thoughts are with you. You are a butterfly. Butterflies need a little time when they emerge from the cocoon.
V.
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Oceanlady, when you are on the new reply page, hit the advanced button and go from there. I hit the attach from camera and take a picture with my iPad and off it goes. That's the only way I know how to do it. I think you can set it up to send pictures from your photo library somehow. I haven't looked into that. But it shouldn't be too difficult. Sean could probably tell you or Dee.
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You can upload to a site as per the link I posted above, but attachments work too, like Venecia said...too many attachments really slows the loading of threads down tho, so admin prefers a file hosting option where possible
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Thanks guys! I will attempt to send some pics!! Don't wait with baited breath! My tech skills are limited!
Brother in law left this AM....thinking how little he drank over the last two weeks here..my guess is not out of support for me ,but historically he has had a cabinet to choose from(free)!!!!
Brother in law left this AM....thinking how little he drank over the last two weeks here..my guess is not out of support for me ,but historically he has had a cabinet to choose from(free)!!!!
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Originally Posted by Oceanlady
Thanks guys! I will attempt to send some pics!! Don't wait with baited breath! My tech skills are limited!
Brother in law left this AM....thinking how little he drank over the last two weeks here..my guess is not out of support for me ,but historically he has had a cabinet to choose from(free)!!!!
Brother in law left this AM....thinking how little he drank over the last two weeks here..my guess is not out of support for me ,but historically he has had a cabinet to choose from(free)!!!!
I believe when we are really serious about quitting and growing we radiate a certain energy. Perhaps in addition to not having the free booze to drink your BIL was also positively affected by your sobriety?
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To all my dear and trusty pals,
Without you, I just couldn't say
Where on earth I'd be.
On and on you've heard my howls
The mighty pangs for birthing me.
Here and now I do so pray
You'll cheer and celebrate with glee,
A time I so despaired to see.
For me, it's 4 months gone. This day.
Without you, I just couldn't say
Where on earth I'd be.
On and on you've heard my howls
The mighty pangs for birthing me.
Here and now I do so pray
You'll cheer and celebrate with glee,
A time I so despaired to see.
For me, it's 4 months gone. This day.
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