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Old 05-05-2017, 11:47 AM
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I'm not grateful

I'm not grateful for anything. I have ruined my life. I have promised my wife that when we get back from holiday all my drinking will stop...really not sure if I want to carry on.
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Old 05-05-2017, 11:53 AM
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I wasn't grateful for much when I was drinking either, juancarlos.

Getting and staying sober changed my perspective. You can turn this around and have a good life.

We're here to support you. I'm grateful you reached out today.
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Old 05-05-2017, 11:55 AM
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I really need some body to talk to
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Old 05-05-2017, 12:22 PM
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I'm here to listen, juancarlos.

How can I help? If you need immediate help, please call this number;

United Kingdom ~ 8457 90 90 90 or 8457 90 91 92 ~ http://www.samaritans.org/
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Old 05-05-2017, 03:48 PM
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There's a ton of support here JC - what about stopping drinking today - doesn't sound like it's taken you to a good place?

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Old 05-05-2017, 03:55 PM
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What has happened to make things this bad?
Has something bad taken place on holiday?
It sounds like you must have some reasons to be grateful if you are on holiday with your wife.


You can feel better if you want to, just stop drinking and start making plans for being sober.
You can turn it around.
Have you been to AA before?
Have you sort any other types of help?
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Old 05-08-2017, 11:45 AM
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How are you doing today?

As you probably know, alcohol is a depressant. It causes nothing but despair for an alcoholic. There is light and hope with abstinence.

We only have to not drink one day at a time. Anyone is capable of not drinking for one day. When confronted to drink, remind yourself that there is no real pleasure in drinking.

One drink leads to, one too many. You will get to the point where you believe alcohol isn't your friend. It's your enemy.

You can do this. We believe in you. Keep talking. Alcohol the beast wants you to isolate. Stay connected. People here understand what your going through. People care and want to help.
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Old 05-08-2017, 03:04 PM
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How are you Juan Carlos?

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Juancarlos are you OK? We are here.
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