Yes, of course it's all my fault.
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Anvil, wow. Yes, I've seen it, but never in the way you were able to just equate it to my situation. You couldn't have made a better point to me if you tried - it makes so much sense. Thank you!
That was good! Really good!
That was good! Really good!
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And the best news of all is that there are lots of humans in the world who don't ever WANT to do the dishes, but move through the day wanting to do their fair share, and that is a true want, and it comes from inside them & they simply move to do the dishes because they know it is their turn.
And when you find a partner who knows that all grown-ups actually need to do the dishes when the dishes are dirty, your heart & brain have space for a universe of more interesting things (both shared things & individual things)!
When two grown-ups are in relationship, an amazing amount of **** just gets done!! And then there is room for everything else!
Yaay, reciprocity!!
Ps. Sticking with dishes as our shared analogy, but I mean it in a wider way! Meeting life fairly!
And when you find a partner who knows that all grown-ups actually need to do the dishes when the dishes are dirty, your heart & brain have space for a universe of more interesting things (both shared things & individual things)!
When two grown-ups are in relationship, an amazing amount of **** just gets done!! And then there is room for everything else!
Yaay, reciprocity!!
Ps. Sticking with dishes as our shared analogy, but I mean it in a wider way! Meeting life fairly!
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