Is it time to leave him?
So how bout some real boundaries to protect you. Examples:
"I will not be in a relationship with someone in active addiction or new to recovery, and
I work hard for my income and will not support free loaders."
I've considered this. I've also considered that it will probably take for him to hit rock bottom to realize he needs to stop these pills and sober up. The thing is though, I don't believe HE realizes that I may be standing between him and his bottom. He just doesn't seem to care. Like when he was living with his friends, there were times when he didn't know if he could stay at their houses, and he acted like he could care less about finding a place to sleep at night. :/
You did not cause this.
You cannot control this.
You cannot cure this.
And you also cannot predict his bottom. Just when we think the addicted is approaching bottom, they tend to keep right on digging.
Save youself.
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And I will make sure to read "Codependent no more" Thank you.
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