Finally some closure -- venting

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Old 07-29-2010, 07:48 PM
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Finally some closure -- venting

I've been coming on this board for almost a year now. As you all know, I am permanently seperated from my EXAABF. We finally went to court tonight concerning the money he owed for skipping out on the rent. It went well. I wouldn't have cared if he gave me 10 bucks! The fact being that he was FINALLY accountable for some of his actions. I also got to witness enabling at its best. Mommy and Daddy were there of course and she acted like a 13 yr old with her gasps and comments. He still drinks, he still hangs at the club, he still goes out with his friend K, and they still don't see it. (2 am the other night and drove his truck!) I feel great knowing that I finally have my closure and don't have to go through anymore. They will............again.............and again................until they let go.

Thanks for letting me vent!
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Now it's time for new beginnings, and I hope you take time to make the first part all about you, because you deserve it girl.

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It feels good to move on, doesn't it! Good for you!!!!! The future is bright and beautiful. Embrace it!

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Don't look back, move forward.....perfect! That was the saying in my Dove chocolate bar yesterday! Thanks all!!
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The future is yours to do whatever you want for YOU. Closure is great - opening up the next door for you is even better!
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I'm happy you have had closure and Congrads on your upcoming marriage. You deserve a happy life.
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I'm not really sure about the marriage rumor but thanks for the support Bonnie!
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