JessicaNAJ

...who called asking to see the kids?

Yep. G called around 5:30 to see if tonight or tomorrow would be a better night for him to come by and see them. Since I was at the hospital seeing my brand new niece and my brother's little girl was coming over to my house tonight, I told him tomorrow would probably be better.

Do you think he had a sudden attack of conscience? Pretty ironic....I think.


I've already made up my mind that I'm not going to ask him any more. He'll come when he comes. But I do think that I will set a couple days for him to see the kids....Monday (so I can go to my meetings ), Thursday and Saturday or Sunday. I'm not sure though that it would even be worth doing that. Right now, he pretty much has the freedom to see them whenever he wants and he don't so what would be the point of setting certain days?

pmaslan

I have this real knack for ....if I talk about somebody they usually show up....
all my friends comment on it....
So if I have that ability....why the heck doesn't that hunk of a guy "Andy Garcia"
ever show up when I bring up his name?????
My friend Rita said...."Patty, I think you gotta know them first..." LOL
Glad the kids are going to see their dad soon....

Gabe

Hey Patty...could you start talking about me purchasing the winning lottery ticket?
Talk about that a lot.
I'll share.
Thanks in advance.

pmaslan

I'll get right on that Gabe....

However, it just seems to work only with people, damn.....

Jazzman

I know EXACTLY what you mean Patty! I was just complaining to a friend of mine the other day...
"Does Sheryl Crow know I'm single now?"

Guess nobody told her yet. Only explanation I can think of.
(Sorry Jessica, the setup was too good to pass on, I owe you one)

I say let him see the kids WHEN it's a priority to him as long as it's NOT an inconvenience to you.

Soul Catcher

You say in one sentence that you are not going to ask him and then say which days you have put aside for him.???? You lost me.

JessicaNAJ

He actually cancelled b/c he finally got his electric on and had to clean. He wait's till 7:10 p.m. to tell me this. We did go together to his cousin's on Thanksgiving so they got so see him the.

Do you think if you and I talked about Mel Gibson he's show up on my door step...lol

JessicaNAJ

Thank you Jazz....that's what I'm doing now. I will not put my life on hold for him to cancel again.

I was considering setting aside days for him, but then I realized that wouldn't make any sense. Especially since he can't show up when he says he will. How is he going to manage showing up on a "scheduled" day.