Kittycat

I am sitting here steaming and trying not to make a #$%^&*()_+ out of myself by lowering myself to my A's level. He just called here, twice now....and called my 30 year old son a ton of foul names etc etc.******, you name it and he is not..............I am such a mother bear....I could hammer this guy! This has been one of our major problems...our second marriage for both ...and we had no kids together. Oh lord how clearly I see daily why I am out of this marriage, I am so sick of hearing his foul disgusting mouth!
You guys will love this other little fun humiliation. I went to our dry cleners, owned by a lovely Korean lady...I rarely wentas I don't have much that I dry clean : ) But the A did, he would dry clean his A--- if he could...and guess what......... next to the dry cleaner is a liquor store! Just so happens it was on the way home for him. So I stopped off yesterday to take some things in to the cleaners ...and she asks where he has been .. I told her we split up and she asked why? I said well diffrences and he drinks a bit and she says OHHHHHHHHHHH I know he always smelled of liquor and EVERDAY....I see him go into the liquor store and come out with a brown bag ! I am not surprised you left him!. NICE!~~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hate being home...the trip really was nice to get a break from all this #$%^&*()_ I can't wait till it is over.
LOVE>>>>>vent vent : )
Kitty

smoke gets in my eyes

Hi Kitty!

Don't be mad... be SMUG! You get confirmation about every 15 minutes, it seems, that you did the right thing! Keep on truckin'.

Love,
Smoke

Ann

I agree with Smoke, Kitty...these stories just validate your decision to leave.

And when he gets abusive on the phone, just hang up. You don't have to participate.

******{Kitty}}}}

Kittycat

I am not even answering the phone...praise God for caller ID! But I listened to the message he left...YES...............it does make me know why I have left him......................
Love Kitty

osier59

Kitty,

I understand about listening to the messages. Mine sends email from time to time even after 2 years apart. Some say I shouldn't read them, but for me it gives me a bit of a barometer as to his emotional state. For now its best that I am informed and up to date on where he is on the emotional rollercoaster.

I am glad you were able to get away, if only for a little while. Grab those moments of peace wherever you can!

HUGS

Osier59

Paulie

(((KITTY)))

I think this confirmations are God telling you that you made the right decision.

Take care of you - if you feel the need to listen to the messages okay, but maybe don't listen for a while, then you wouldn't be put through all the pain.
Just a thought.