Handed divorce papers to the AXW
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Handed divorce papers to the AXW
I've kept my no contact intact for 15 months, but today was unavoidable because I had to serve her divorce papers. The 2 minute factual conversation about what to do with the papers brought on such strong feelings of resentment that stayed with me for about 45 minutes afterwards. It serves as a reminder that I want nothing to do with her, which makes me both glad and sad: glad because I know for sure that I don't want to risk going down that road again, and sad because this is someone whom I used to trust completely and now I can't stand the sight of her.
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Both congratulations and condolences to you Thomas. This is such tough stuff.
I always feel compelled to thank anyone who leaves an addict. By doing this we choose life and choose to make the world a tiny bit better.
Healing, strength and peace to you Thomas. May this next chapter in your life bring you joy.
I always feel compelled to thank anyone who leaves an addict. By doing this we choose life and choose to make the world a tiny bit better.
Healing, strength and peace to you Thomas. May this next chapter in your life bring you joy.
I totally empathize with the mad/sad cluster of feelings. Can be exhausting.
I haven't spoken with my ex in several months. I find that both liberating and upsetting at the same time. ( I am still a work in progress)
Good for you moving forward the way you are.
*hugs*
I haven't spoken with my ex in several months. I find that both liberating and upsetting at the same time. ( I am still a work in progress)
Good for you moving forward the way you are.
*hugs*
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Thomas,
I agree, I hurt for days, when I have interactions with axh. My dd22 is graduating from college in 2 weeks so will spend the weekend with him. Quite nervous of the bs he will try and pull. I hope for her sake he will be on his best bevavior.
When u have kids you are forever tied to them.
Hugs my friend, I hope the divorce is over quickly and is painless.
I agree, I hurt for days, when I have interactions with axh. My dd22 is graduating from college in 2 weeks so will spend the weekend with him. Quite nervous of the bs he will try and pull. I hope for her sake he will be on his best bevavior.
When u have kids you are forever tied to them.
Hugs my friend, I hope the divorce is over quickly and is painless.
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