honeypig

NOVEMBER 13

You are reading from the book "The Language of Letting Go."

Taking Care of Ourselves

We do not have to wait for others to come to our aid. We are not victims. We are not helpless.

Letting go of faulty thinking means we realize there are no knights on white horses, no magical grandmothers in the sky watching, waiting to rescue us.

Teachers may come our way, but they will not rescue. They will teach. People who care will come, but they will not rescue. They will care. Help will come, but help is not rescuing.

We are our own rescuers.

Our relationships will improve dramatically when we stop rescuing others and stop expecting them to rescue us.

Today I will let go of the fears and self doubt that block me from taking assertive action in my best interest. I can take care of myself and let others do the same for themselves.

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armartin

Amen!

firebolt

Straight to ma heart as usual. Thank you!

Uplifting

I want to paint this on my face!!

honeypig

That was a large part of my attraction to XAH, for sure--he looked like a knight in shining armor to me, and that was something I really wanted at that time. It kept me locked in and blind to what was going on for far too long...