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I got a job offer last week, and I put my 2 weeks in at my current job.
Its a little more money, and I think it has a lot more potential. But I'm having anxiety about changing. I don't like change...I chalk some of that up to the situation I was in growing up. And I know all change isn't bad, but I'm scared I won't do well. The job I have now is fine, but there isn't any potential to grow, I think I've hit the cap here.
Most of you have known that my goals were to leave exabf, buy a house, and find a better job. And its all here. But I'm so SCARED.
Has anyone else been through this?
I got a job offer last week, and I put my 2 weeks in at my current job.
Its a little more money, and I think it has a lot more potential. But I'm having anxiety about changing. I don't like change...I chalk some of that up to the situation I was in growing up. And I know all change isn't bad, but I'm scared I won't do well. The job I have now is fine, but there isn't any potential to grow, I think I've hit the cap here.
Most of you have known that my goals were to leave exabf, buy a house, and find a better job. And its all here. But I'm so SCARED.
Has anyone else been through this?
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Congrats to you Blossom! That is great news!
Change is definitely hard. We like to stay in our comfort zones. However, change is usually a good thing. You deserve this!
Good luck to you, keep us posted!!!!
XXX
Change is definitely hard. We like to stay in our comfort zones. However, change is usually a good thing. You deserve this!
Good luck to you, keep us posted!!!!
XXX
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well In the midst of excitement I hadn't asked what the health benefits are at the new place. (turns out they DON'T offer insurance!)
My current boss asked me what I wanted to stay, I told him my terms and he accepted them.
So....I guess it still works out. Thank you for the encouragement! I am still having confidence issues, trusting my instincts.
My current boss asked me what I wanted to stay, I told him my terms and he accepted them.
So....I guess it still works out. Thank you for the encouragement! I am still having confidence issues, trusting my instincts.
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Can relate to feeling scared, but it's totally normal to feel that way. As you push through these scary situations they become less scary.
Each time you navigate a change through unfamiliar waters, your confidence will grow.
Thanks for sharing your exciting news!!
Each time you navigate a change through unfamiliar waters, your confidence will grow.
Thanks for sharing your exciting news!!
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