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Old 05-15-2015, 09:39 AM
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If I ever get sober...

"If I ever get sober I will search for you and stay with you" this is by far the worst text he has ever sent me.

I received it this morning. Why bother sending such a thing? Maybe he'll never get sober and truth is, I'll never forget all he did to me.

I went to the phone store so they could block his number.

It's done, he wanted it to be done. Now it's my turn to start over..
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Good going!

Going no contact is a great start to healing.
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Old 05-15-2015, 09:51 AM
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Excellent.

To me those stupid little texts that A's send are nothing but immature , manipulative, baiting, quacks.

That one is particularly insulting because it suggests you would just sit around and wait for his dumb ass.
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Thanks for your support, Lexie.
And yes, Sungrl, I have already wasted two years of my youth in this person. That was very insulting. Such a great ego he has in there...
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I remember feeling “empowered” when I blocked his number. It was a step I needed to take in order to get my life back and out of the hands of an A.

The next step, try not to drown in worry or guilt from not hearing from them.
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Wow

"If I ever get sober I will search for you and stay with you"
That's a great one for the Quackers thread!

You're doing great - you deserve SO MUCH BETTER!
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Wow! Quakers Hall of Fame I'd say! Well done blocking that nonsense!! Let him search for himslef first!
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Old 05-15-2015, 01:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Timetoheal12 View Post
"Why bother sending such a thing?
Drunk texting no doubt.
who the H knows...but this is classic..and pathetic.

His quacker way of acknowledging he's an a.hole ...but more importantly - with no intention of changing.
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Originally Posted by Duckygirl1 View Post
Quakers Hall of Fame
lol!
Can this be a new thread?

we can do nominations
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Old 05-16-2015, 04:36 AM
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Yes you are right, it is your turn to start over.

Congrats on blocking his number.



Originally Posted by Timetoheal12 View Post
"If I ever get sober I will search for you and stay with you" this is by far the worst text he has ever sent me.

I received it this morning. Why bother sending such a thing? Maybe he'll never get sober and truth is, I'll never forget all he did to me.

I went to the phone store so they could block his number.

It's done, he wanted it to be done. Now it's my turn to start over..
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Old 05-16-2015, 04:50 AM
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Couple weeks ago I gave a stranger a few dollars to buy his lotto tix. He told me if he won he would find me and give me half. I've been on pins and needles waiting.

A ridiculous statement by your X and supremely funny that its never crossed his mind that you aren't interested now or ever.
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Old 05-16-2015, 08:33 AM
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Drunk texting no doubt.
who the H knows...but this is classic..and pathetic.

His quacker way of acknowledging he's an a.hole ...but more importantly - with no intention of changing.
I agree with this. And it is very sad to know it. It feels like he loves to harm me.

I should stay away, anyways...
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Old 05-16-2015, 08:35 AM
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Thanks everyone.
Yesterday when I was out doing some shopping with mom we saw him in his way to a bar with another guy.
It was pure bad luck I guess
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we saw him in his way to a bar with another guy.
It was pure bad luck I guess


nope, that was actually REALITY.

as for his text, that's the text version of drunk dialing. it means NOTHING. its not done to hurt you.....you can be assured you were not the only person to get a text during his drunken stupor.....

block and walk. keep moving towards happy days.
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