feeling guilty, help!
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feeling guilty, help!
Need to get some advice. My husband has recently relapsed and created an issue in which I had to arrest him and get a court restraining order against him to protect me and my kids. He ended up losing his job but discovered he was able to get a second chance to prove himself and stay sober. He went back to where we used to live for 2 weeks for a trial sessionwith work. Every year we went to a families house for super bowl. Well now he is not invited. Why do I feel bad about this? He's trying right now to stay sober and work nut I guess I can't make our friends forgive him, can I?
I am a bit confused from your post. He was arrested, has a restraining order, he can't see you or his kids, he is on a "last chance" agreement of sorts or he will lose his job.
I can't wrap my head around any concern over where we are watching the Super Bowl. Seems his plate is quite full. Good luck.
I can't wrap my head around any concern over where we are watching the Super Bowl. Seems his plate is quite full. Good luck.
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The kids and I are not going. We live in a different state now. I see the confusion. His plate IS full no doubt. Just feel bad he has burned through so many of his friendships which used to be "our" friendships.
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