Confetti

James,

There are many places that she can seek help. It sounds like she has tried some of them, but they haven't helped her thus far.

In my situation, I had stuck my head in the sand for so long, it was an affair that made me leave, but then my eyes were opened. Opened to the horrible monster my husband had become, the pathetic father he now is. I had made our life coast by on memories of better times. He does not admit he has a problem, least of all want to solve it. Once I realized how his behavior had affected our children, I could never go back.

I worry about your children....are they with her 24/7? Can a relative/ sibling/ neighbor step in....or at least keep an eye out while you are away? I am in Canada and I know that there is help available at some bases...does she live on base...is that a possibility?

I really feel for you, being so far away and feeling rather helpless.

Sending you positive thoughts