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12-11-2012, 05:20 PM

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ZiggyB

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Originally Posted by itsvally13

You sound JUST like me. I am 25 and I think there was like a 4 month span of me truly being single since I was 16 years old :/. Ugh. Why do I do that to myself. I know I could make myself so happy spending time with myself, and taking care of ME! But I just don't know how to do that because I have depended on men to make me happy (which they obviously failed misrably at or I wouldn't be here). I hope when I go to counselling I can figure out why I do this to myself.

Hey, at least you made the realization sooner than I did. I'm 44 and have been bouncing around in one relationship or another for 25 years with hardly a break in between. If I wasn't in a relationship I was out searching for one. I'm just now learning how to take care of myself. I was married for 16 years and it used to be the idea of being alone terrified me, now I think it's kind of fun!