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Old 01-01-2007, 05:52 AM
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This morning

I get this e-mail from him

"Happy New Year hope this year is more acceptable to you than last year and that you find what you are looking for. Take good care o you and Myles.
Good-bye"


Oh the drama of it all.


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Old 01-01-2007, 06:11 AM
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The drama..exactly.
I actually changed my telephone number yesterday...for a number of reasons..but mainly? I hated the way my heart jumped everytime it rang wondering if it could be him. Made me hate myself a little each time. I really and truly need a brand new world this 2007.
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Old 01-01-2007, 08:00 AM
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oh Cat...

yeah the drama. I'm expecting more myself.

BTW I was thinking of you this morning because my mind flashed to the other evening and I remembered xabf indirectly called me a b****. Actually he was calling all woman that because apparently being sensitive to an insult makes us a b****.

My phone rand this 2x morning while I was still in bed and I assumed it was xabf. My body tensed up, eyes filled with tears.

HA, IT WAS MY DAD!
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There should be a whole page of icons for alcoholics to enhance their messages.
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Old 01-01-2007, 12:48 PM
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Yes Mallowcup and I can just imagine what the icons would ahhahahahahahaha.


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Old 01-01-2007, 12:50 PM
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Honest to God when we can get out from under all the guilt and thinking everything is our fault it is possible to see the humour in their stupid insanity.


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I wonder what icons there would be?

The finger.

Some nagging, scowling shrew.

Does anyone want to add some more? hahahahahahahahahahahahaha


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There should be a whole page of icons for alcoholics to enhance their messages.
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Old 01-01-2007, 12:57 PM
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ohhhh.....i dare not even go there....LOL
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Old 01-01-2007, 01:09 PM
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"Hello, I just wanted to wish you a Happy New Year, please dont feel responsible for anything I may do to myself. It gives me comfort to know that you are warm dry and fed while I am living in this cardboard box. Find your happiness without me and know that I am praying for you. OK, I guess that's it. Happy H
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Mine would use the weeping martyr emoticon often.
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...which as always made me wonder.....what makes their tears so special, did yours ever matter?
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No actually come to think of it.
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Old 01-02-2007, 06:21 AM
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Now I'm getting e-mails

"What I used the B word not even at you and you can't even wish me happy new year?"


Ugh.


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For some strange reason they seem to keep bugging till they find someone else to bug.

Block him from your e-mail if he is getting on your nerves...
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Did you email him back after the first "goodbye" email? What good is this serving for you? Maybe take a break. Don't feed into this or immerse yourself in it, it'll only increase the drama and keep it going. hugs
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"ohhhh.....i dare not even go there....LOL"

Recalling your recent post in which you gave your ex a thorough tongue lashing, may I request that it be a particularly animated icon that we can affectionately dub "the Jeri?"
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fdm....i can see it now....but i don't dare describe it....lol
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Originally Posted by mallowcup View Post
...which as always made me wonder.....what makes their tears so special, did yours ever matter?

You just reminded me of something from a long while back...

ABF was on a "pity party"...crying n stuff...I didn't fall for tears...I was "cold" (to quote ABF)....

He said "I'm sitting here crying...does it even matter to you that I'm upset...you don't even care do you?"...

I replied "I cry all the time, do you care?"

And he said

"but I never cry, so it means more..."

Funny stuff, lol...the things alcohol does to the brain..
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Old 01-03-2007, 10:59 AM
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Actually Deax I didn't e-mail him after the first good-bye one that's why I'm getting these now.

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Did you email him back after the first "goodbye" email? What good is this serving for you? Maybe take a break. Don't feed into this or immerse yourself in it, it'll only increase the drama and keep it going. hugs
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I changed my email account.
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