In Memory Of My Friend, Jim

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Old 11-05-2006, 03:39 PM
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In Memory Of My Friend, Jim

my friend lost his life today.
he was only 48 yrs. old.
alcoholic all of his adult life.

he had lost his dr. lic. and drove a scooter. while pulling out of the local restaurant where he had been having breakfast, he was hit by a car.

jim had been sober for two months, and was so happy that he had achieved 2 months sobriety. jim was the sort of drunk that everyone loved....not a mean bone in his body. never married....no children. but many, many friends.

jim was the sort of man that would fight for you first, then ask "why" later.

although it was well known around this small town that jim was very much the alcoholic, everyone looked out for him, and treated him with respect.....that is because jim did the same for everyone else.

his alcoholism may have stopped him from having a marriage and children, but it did not stop him from having many friends that loved him deeply.

jim....it was an honor knowing you, my friend.

thank you for all you did for me. thank you for all the times you forgave me for lecturing you while you so stupidly grinned at me.

thank you for all the kindness you showed to many people.....many kindnesses that most will never even know about.

thank you for showing up at 2 a.m. in the morning and throwing up in my pool because you were on a crying jag....and i got so mad....and you just said....whoa, thar girl.....i'll take care of it.

thank you for coming back the next morning and draining, cleaning, and re-setting the pool, then leaving, before i even got out of bed.

thank you, god, for jim
his life was precious
rest in peace, jim
i love you, my friend....course you always knew that, didn't ya?
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Old 11-05-2006, 05:05 PM
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I am very sorry for your loss.

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and all who loved Jim.

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My heart goes out you and your friend's family during this time of loss. But please remember-don't be grateful that Jim died sober. Be grateful he got to live sober for a while.
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I'm so sorry....for the passing of your dear friend, Jim.
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(((embraced2000))) sorry for the loss of your friend jim - he was a lucky man to have a friend such as you.

may he be at peace and forever now sober!
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Im so sorry for your loss.

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Praying for Jim's friends who grieve tonight. Thank you for posting this...to know he died sober is a blessing.

Hang in there.
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(((Embraced)))

I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved friend. Your beautiful tribute shows that he was so much more than just an alcoholic.

Prayers for Jim and all who loved him ~

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Old 11-05-2006, 06:05 PM
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Prayers out to u and all who knew Jim! He sounded like a very kind man.
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So sorry for your sadness over your friend Jim's passing.....
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Wow, what a shame....sorry for your loss. Prayers for all who knew him.

It was truely a blessing that he got to experience life sober before he died. May he truely rest in peace.
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jeri, i just log'd on... something said to read this thread... jeri, i am saddened to hear this news... my thoughts are with you...

xxoo, patrick
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Sorry to hear about your good friend... it is good to know that there are some alcoholics who are kind and have a conscience... and he was obviously one of them.
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sending my condolences.
My prayers are with you,
God Bless.
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(((embraced2000))) I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your dear friend. I am glad you had each other;sounds like you both had a lot of love rfor one another.
thanks for sharing
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Old 11-06-2006, 06:59 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss Jeri, what you wrote is beautiful, everyone should be so lucky to have someone that cares about them so much.
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I'm so very sorry for your loss hun...he was called home for a reason and I just think it's wonderful that he died sober....bless his heart.
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prayers and hugs to you and Jim
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Sorry for your loss, embraced.

That's a beautiful post though, your portrayal of a human being. Prayers for Jim and all who loved him.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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