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My AH comes back from his meeting today. I’m preparing for a friends wedding. He said words I never heard before come out of his mouth. He said “I’m going to do everything I can to make you feel emotionally safe.” Wow, just wow. I didn’t think he knew or understood I have emotions. Go figure.
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Originally Posted by Dazedandconfus 
My AH comes back from his meeting today. I’m preparing for a friends wedding. He said words I never heard before come out of his mouth. He said “I’m going to do everything I can to make you feel emotionally safe.” Wow, just wow. I didn’t think he knew or understood I have emotions. Go figure.
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Dazed......those words sound good.....and, I imagine that they send you a surge of hope....
Lest we forget----Remember that it is not just talking the talk---it is about walking the walk....
Words can roll off our tongues so easily.....but it is actions, over time, that tell the story.....
Lest we forget----Remember that it is not just talking the talk---it is about walking the walk....
Words can roll off our tongues so easily.....but it is actions, over time, that tell the story.....
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you could ask him "and what does that actually MEAN? what does it LOOK like to you?"
just as his earlier words changed as the day went on, and ranged from I'm Leaving to I'm going to harm myself, these "new" words are still just that. words.
listen less.
observe more.
just as his earlier words changed as the day went on, and ranged from I'm Leaving to I'm going to harm myself, these "new" words are still just that. words.
listen less.
observe more.
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Actions wouldn't necessarily mean anything either if he's just doing it to get you to change your mind about the divorce. He is well aware that he is about to have to move and that his life is about to drastically change...something he wants to avoid at all costs.
Is he still packing? Is he looking for another place to live? Sounds to me like he is dragging his feet in hopes you will give him another chance.
Is he still packing? Is he looking for another place to live? Sounds to me like he is dragging his feet in hopes you will give him another chance.
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Originally Posted by suki44883
Actions wouldn't necessarily mean anything either if he's just doing it to get you to change your mind about the divorce. He is well aware that he is about to have to move and that his life is about to drastically change...something he wants to avoid at all costs.
Is he still packing? Is he looking for another place to live? Sounds to me like he is dragging his feet in hopes you will give him another chance.
Is he still packing? Is he looking for another place to live? Sounds to me like he is dragging his feet in hopes you will give him another chance.
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