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Old 08-15-2018, 12:00 AM
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Today I am gonna try to get sober but I am extremely terrified. Please God be with me and make me strong.
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Old 08-15-2018, 12:14 AM
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You can do it.
It’s normal to be scared.
You’v come to the right place for support.
Stay with us and we will get you through.
You’re not alone.
Cravings last around 9 mins.

All you have to do is not pour that poison down your throat

Good luck
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Old 08-15-2018, 12:43 AM
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Like you I was also terrified. I’ve been drinking for nearly 30 years! I’m no expert as this is only my third time trying and I’m on day 10.
As they say just take it a day at a time and sometimes a minute at a time when the cravings are bad. I’ve been keeping busy doing anything I can to take my mind off it.
I’ve a long way to go but trust me you’ll be surprised how quickly you start to feel better.
Good luck and if I can do it you certainly can.
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Old 08-15-2018, 02:13 AM
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We;re here with you LuluBell828 - you're not alone )

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Old 08-15-2018, 08:02 AM
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keep in mind ...

its the 1st drink that gets us drunk not the 20th

we cant get drunk without that 1st drink

our choice is between miserable unhappy drunken drinking and all the consequences

or

not taking 1 drink

God bless
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Old 08-15-2018, 08:19 AM
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Welcome to the family. It's normal to be scared. This is a big change. But many of us have done it so you can too!
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Old 08-15-2018, 08:21 AM
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Praying for you Lulu!
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Old 08-15-2018, 09:35 AM
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Fear and being scared can work two ways. One is we can be scared what life will be like without alcohol because we are so used to it. Or we can be scared as to what will happen if we CONTINUE to drink. It was the latter that convinced me to stop.
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Old 08-15-2018, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted by LuluBell828 View Post
Today I am gonna try to get sober but I am extremely terrified.
Terrified of what, if I may ask?
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How are you doing, LuluBell?
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Old 08-15-2018, 10:00 AM
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welcome to SR! I was scared too but deciding to quit drinking was one of the best decisions I ever made. I wish you the best in your journey. Keep posting!
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Old 08-15-2018, 11:39 AM
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I was right where you are 2 days ago and found this group and was so happy I did! I'm glad you reached out too! You can do this!
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Old 08-15-2018, 12:14 PM
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Welcome Lulu!

Pretty much all of us here have been exactly at the point your at right now in our own unique way. You can get and stay sober.

You are among people who understand.
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Old 08-15-2018, 12:32 PM
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You can do this Lulu
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